Ngaba ucwangcisa ukwandisa usapho lwakho ngoboya obunemilenze emine? Ngaba sele uhlala nenye inja kwaye ungathanda ukuzisa enye ukuze badlale? Nokuba ukwimeko enye okanye enye, ngeli xesha ndiza kunceda umhlobo wakho omtsha abe isiqalo esihle kunye nawe kunye nosapho olutsha lomntu.
Ke masibone indlela yokulungiselela ukungena kwenja entsha ekhaya.
Imeko # 1 - Inja iza kuhlala kusapho ngaphandle kwezilwanyana
Ukuba akukho zilwanyana kusapho lwakho kwaye into oyifunayo kukuzisa inja ukuba ihlale nawe, kubalulekile ukuba ushiye »ikhaya lakho» ikhaya liqhelekile kwaye livuya kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka uthathe ibhegi yokuphatha izinja, kwaye uyinike amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuze yonwabe kwaye yonwabe.
Kuyacetyiswa kuphephe ukuya ngqo ekhayangakumbi ukuba unovalo kancinci okanye awuphumli. Ke, ukuba ugonyo luhlaziyiwe, ndikucebisa ukuba umthathe uhambe ujikeleze iindawo ezingqongileyo, emva koko uye endlwini, apho baya kukulinda khona 🙂.
Xa sele usekhaya, Kuya kufuneka umyeke ukuba akuphonononge ngoxolo, igumbi ngegumbi, kwaye umfundise ukuba alale phi, kwaye aphi umntu othatha ukutya kunye nokusela, kuba ukuba ayenziwanga ngoku, ukuba uqala ukukhwela esofeni ngaphandle kwemvume kunokuba nzima ukususa loo mkhwa.
Imeko # 2 - Inja iya kuhlala kusapho apho kukho izinja
Ukuba sele unayo inja kwaye ufuna enye, into ekufuneka uyenzile, ngaphambi kokuba uye ekhaya, thatha uhambo kunye nale intsha ukuze izole kwaye ikhululeke. Ngale ndlela, xa ilixesha lokwazisa, kunokwenzeka ukuba iingxaki azizukuvela.
Phambi kokungena emnyango wendlu, kunye nokhuseleko, Cela umntu ukuba abuyisele inja yakho »endala. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba umhlobo wakho "wakudala" khange abe unxibelelana nezinye izinja ngaphambili, okanye xa ungazi ukuba bazakuphendula njani. Ukuthintela nayiphi na ingxaki, ungasebenzisa ithuba hamba nezinja zombini, kuba? Kungenxa yokuba ngaloo ndlela baya kudibana kwindawo engathathi hlangothi bobabini, kumhlaba ekungayi kubakho mfuneko yokuba bawulawule. Yiya ngamabhaso ezinja zozibini ukuze ziqale ukuhlala kunye, zibe ngabahlobo.
Xa ekugqibeleni ubona ukuba nizolile, iya kuba lixesha lokugoduka. Xa ulapho, Izintya ziya kususwa kwaye ziya kuvunyelwa ukuba zisebenzisane.
Ewe kunjalo, kwimeko apho kuvela iingxaki, bohlukane ke "omtsha" asiwe kwigumbi azofumana kulo ukutya, amanzi, ibhedi nengubo. Inja "endala" nayo kufuneka ibenengubo, kuba zombini kufuneka zitshintshwe kathathu ngeentsuku ezi-3, ukuze ziqhelane nevumba lomnye umntu. Ukusukela ngomhla wesine, uya kubeka ii-leashes kubo kwaye uzame ukubazisa kwakhona, uzolile, kwaye ubanike uninzi lwezinja xa beziphatha kakuhle, oko kukuthi, ukuba bayawuphosa umsila ngolonwabo, ukuba banomdla enye, ukuba abafundisi amazinyo abo okanye iinwele zabo,… ngamafutshane, ukuba babonakalisa umoya wobuhlobo.
Ukuba konke kuhamba kakuhle, ungabayeka bahambe, kodwa ukuba akunjalo, kungangcono ukugcina i »entsha» yahlulwe kwi »indala» kangangeentsuku ezimbalwa ngaphezulu, kwaye udibane nomqeqeshi wezinja osebenza ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba inkqubela yeveki khange yenziwe.
Kwaye, uyonwabele »inja yakho» entsha! 🙂