Izinja zinokuba ngabahlobo abasenyongweni babantwana, kodwa kuphela ukuba bobabini (inja nabantu) bayahloniphana. Ukuze oku kwenzeke, kufuneka ukuba abazali bomntwana babekhona xa bekunye, kuba kungenjalo kunokuvela iingxaki.
Abantu banendlela eyahlukileyo yokudlala xa sisebancinci: sihlala sithatha izinto, sihlafuna kuzo okanye siziphakamele. Konke oku kuyicaphukisa kakhulu inja, enokuziva isoyikiswa kwaye ihlaselwe. Ukuba uzifumana ukule meko, sazise indlela yokuphatha umntwana ngokulunywa yinja.
Luthini unyango lokulunywa yinja ebantwaneni?
Phambi kokuba senze nantoni na, nangaphambi kokuba sibe nomsindo (nto leyo ibingasayi kuba luncedo), kufuneka silipholise inxeba lenkwenkwe. Yayo, sizakudinga isepha namanzi, umgubo wetyuwa kunye ne gauze ecocekileyo. Xa sele sinayo, siza kuyicoca inxeba kakuhle, kwaye siza kuyibulala iintsholongwane nge-serum. Ukuba sisilonda esiphulukana negazi elininzi okanye esijongeka sinobuzaza, kwangoko emva koko kufuneka sisiwe kwagqirha.
Apho iyakuvavanywa kwaye kubulawe iintsholongwane. Ukuba kukho izihlunu ezifileyo, ziya kususwa phantsi kwe-anesthesia kwaye inxeba livaliwe. Kwakhona, ukuthintela usulelo, uya kuthi ngokunokwenzeka anike iiprothylactic antibiotics ngomlomo. Kwiimeko ezimandundu iyeza liza kufakwa ngaphakathi.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa inja iluma umntwana? Indlela yokujongana nale meko?
Xa inja iluma umntwana okanye omnye umntu sinokuphendula ngeendlela ezintathu ezahlukeneyo:
- Omnye wabo ngogonyamelo, ubamba isilwanyana kwaye usikhwaza ngokungaziphathi kakuhle.
- Enye kukuthatha isilwanyana kwaye, ngaphandle kokuthetha nelizwi, ukususa emntwaneni.
- Kwaye enye ayenzi kwanto, ngokungathi ngalo mzuzu besivaliwe.
Yeyiphi eyona mpendulo intle? Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, eyesibini. Nangona ingaphelelanga. Emva kokuthatha inja, Kuya kufuneka sive ukuba kutheni ephendule ngolu hlobo Ukusuka apho, sebenza naye nomntwana ukuze ingaphindi yenzeke.
Abantwana benza izinto abangazithandiyo izinja, njengokuyibamba imisila, ukuncamathelisa iminwe yabo emehlweni, okanye ukuyikrwitsha. Nokuba singoomalume, ootatomkhulu okanye abazali bomntu omncinci, kufuneka simcacisele ukuba ezi zinto akanakuzenza, kuba kufuneka siyihloniphe inja ukuze iphile ngolonwabo ecaleni kwethu.
Ke, inja kunye nomntwana baya kuphinda babe ngabahlobo babo.