Xa sihlala noboya, siye siqonde kwangoko ukuba sihle kangakanani esi silwanyana: siyasihlekisa, sisinika uthando, kwaye sikwasonwabela ubomi. Siye samthanda kakhulu kangangokuba kwimizuzu nje embalwa waba yinxalenye yosapho lwethu. Kodwa, Ngaba uyazi ukuba ungabuhlaziya njani ubudlelwane nenja?
Ngokuqinisekileyo sele umthambisile kakhulu, kodwa Ukuba ufuna ukuba inja yakho yonwabe nangakumbi, ungathandabuzi ukuqhubeka nokufunda.
Dlala naye
Inja iyakuthanda ukudlala, ngakumbi ukuba isencinci. Ke, fumana iibhola kunye neetetherthi kwaye umenze abe nexesha elimnandi nawe. Zilahle kude kuye kufuneka azilande, kwaye athathe ithuba lokumpompa ngalo lonke ixesha ezibuyisela kuwe okanye azishiya emhlabeni kufutshane nawe.
Yiphathe nanini na unakho
Kuhambo, ukuya kwintengiso, elwandle ... Inja iyakuthanda ukuchitha ixesha ngaphandle kwekhaya, ke ukuba impilo yakho iyakuvumela, ungathandabuzi ukusebenzisa ithuba lakho lasimahla ukuyisa kwiindawo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Ukongeza, ngale ndlela uya kuqhela kubukho babanye abantu kunye neenja ezinoboya, eziza kumnceda ukuba abe yinja enobuhlobo ngakumbi.
Yiphathe kakuhle
Kodwa hayi xa uxakekile ujonge ifowuni yakho okanye ufunda incwadi. Xa uyiphulula, kuya kufuneka unike ingqalelo inja kuphela. Kusemva koko apho aya kuthi azi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umthanda ngokwenyani.
Sukumphatha gadalala
Ukumemeza okanye ukubetha isilwanyana akuyi kukufundisa ukuba uhloniphe ngakumbi, kodwa kunoko ukwesaba abantu. Ngokuba fundisa inja kufuneka ube nomonde kwaye uyihloniphe ngamaxesha onke. Kuya kufuneka ucinge ukuba akukho mntu uzelweyo esazi, kwaye wena nosapho lwakho kufuneka ukhathalele ukuba uyayifunda, uhlala enomvuzo kunye noxinzelelo, ungaze umhlukumeze okanye umenzakalise.
Ngala macebiso, ubudlelwane bakho nenja yomntu buya komelezwa, ngokuqinisekileyo 🙂.