Ukuze sikwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo obuhlala buhleli kwaye bomelele Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthatha ixesha ukuqonda ubushushu esinayo ekhaya. Nangona engakwazi ukuthetha njengathi, unolwimi olutyebileyo oluthethwa ngomlomo, enkosi apho anokuchaza khona indlela avakalelwa ngayo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni inja yakho ekuxelela yona, funda ukuze ufumane indlela yokuqonda ukukhonkotha kwenja yam, ukungxola nokubhomboloza.
Kuthetha ntoni ukukhonkotha?
Ukukhonkotha yindlela yenja yokungabonisi kuphela into ayifunayo ngelo xesha, kodwa nokucela ingqalelo kwangoko. Kuxhomekeke kubude bexesha kunye nethoni (ephezulu / esezantsi) iya kugqithisa enye into okanye enye:
- Isilumkiso sobungozi: Zikhonkotha emathunjini okanye zimfutshane rhoqo.
- juego: Zifutshane, zikhonkotha kakhulu.
- Ukungazithembi / ukuhlaselwa okunokwenzeka: amaxolo aphantsi kwaye ahlukene.
- Ukungazithembi / indawo: amaxolo akhwaza, aphakame kakhulu kwaye ayakhawuleza.
- Yiva intlungu: Ngamaxolo aphezulu.
- Iimbuliso: ezi zikhonkwane zimfutshane.
Ufuna ukubonisa ntoni ngesikhalo?
Isandi sokukhala sisandi apho baveza iimvakalelo ezinzulu. Inja ibasebenzisa kuphela kwiimeko ezizodwa:
- Ngaba uziva ulilolo: zide zilile.
- Ukuphendula eminye imisindo: bayabhomboloza kwimowudi ye-siren.
- U lonwabo: ezibhomboloza zimfutshane, ngelizwi eliphezulu elonyukayo.
- Yiya kuzingela: sisikhalo sodwa.
Kukuthini ukugquma?
Inja isebenzisa ukugquma, hayi ukulwa, kodwa ukuphepha ungquzulwano. Esi silwanyana sinoxolo, kwaye siya kuba ndlongondlongo xa sizive sisongelwa. Umzekelo:
- Ukungazithembi: Kukugquma okunamaxolo aphezulu.
- Uvalo: Kukugquma okuphakathi okanye kungekho bark.
- Uziva usengozini: Oku kunokuba kukugquma okufutshane okanye ukugquma okuphantsi.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba wonwabile kwaye ufuna ukudlala, angarhona, kodwa iya kuba kukuthamba okuncinci. Oku kwenziwa ngakumbi ziinjana okanye izinja zentlalo. Ayisosizathu sokukhathazeka.
Ndiyathemba ukuba ngoku uyakwazi ukunxibelelana ngcono nomhlobo wakho onemilenze emine.