Xa sibona inja sinotyekelo olukhulu lokusondela kuye ukuze siyiphathe kwaye simnake kancinci, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha siyalibala ukubuza umgcini wayo ukuba singayenza na. Okomzuzu olindelekileyo angangxola kuthi okanye asihlasele kuba khange sihloniphe indawo yakhe kwaye asihoyanga nolwimi lomzimba wakhe.
Kuya kufuneka siqonde ukuba ayizizo zonke izinja ezinonxibelelwano kwaye zinobuhlobo. Kukho abanye abaneentloni okanye aboyikayo abanokuthi basabele kakubi xa sisondela kubo. Ukuyiphepha, siza kukuxelela indlela yokusondela kwinja engaqhelekanga.
Inja kufuneka ithathe inyathelo lokuqala
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina oku engqondweni. Inja kufuneka ibe yeyokuqala ukuthatha inyathelo lokuqala, ekufuneka ithathe isigqibo sokuba iyafuna (okanye hayi) ukusondela kuthi. Ukuba sifuna ukuba nethuba elingcono lokuphumelela, kuyakufuneka ukuba sikuphephe ukujonga emehlweni akhe nokugoba, kuba oku kuya kusizisa ekuphakameni kwakhe kwaye asizokoyikisa.
Qaphela ulwimi lwabo lomzimba
Ngaphambi kokumphulula, kufuneka simqwalasele. Ukuba uphehla umsila wakhe ngolonwabo, kulungile, oko kuthetha ukuba uqala ukusithanda; Kwelinye icala, ukuba unayo phakathi kwemilenze yakhe, okanye ukuba xa sizisa isandla sakhe entlokweni yakhe uyasityhala, kungangcono ukuba sisuke kuye.
Buza umntu wakho
Ukuba inja ikhatshwa, kuyakunyanzeleka ukuba umbuze ukuba singayiphulula na leya okanye hayi. Kwimeko apho impendulo ingqinayo, siya kwenza njalo sithathela ingqalelo ingcebiso enikwe apha ngasentla, senze iintshukumo ezigudileyo nezolileyo. Njengoko uboya buziva ukhuseleke ngakumbi kunye nathi, kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba siyakubona ukuba ihlala kunye nemilenze yayo yangaphambili kwimilenze yethu.
Ke ngoku uyazi: sondela kwinja engaqhelekanga, kuphela ukuba uyafuna.