Kwabanye, umbono ka hlikihla inja. Nangona kunjalo, oku kunokuba ngumbono olungileyo, ongasincedi bona kuphela, kodwa nathi siphumle. Izinja zokuthambisa zinokubanceda bazive bekhululekile kwaye beshiya imikhwa yabo emibi ekhaya, kodwa ikwabanceda baphucule ukujikeleza kunye nokomeleza ubudlelwane babo kunye nomnini.
Ukuphulula inja Sikwamqhela ukuba adlalwe ukusukela emncinci, ngaphandle kokwenza ukuba othuke. Wakhe wayazi inja engakwaziyo ukuchukumisa umsila wayo okanye iindlebe kuba iba novalo okanye ubundlongondlongo? Ewe, ukuba siqhela sisebancinci, oku ngekhe kwenzeke kwaye baya kuziva bekhululekile xa benxibelelana nabantu. Ngenye indlela yokubanceda banxibelelane.
Ukuqala, i-massages oqhele ukuzithanda kakhulu zezizo benza entloko, kwaye ngokukodwa kwindawo yeendlebe. Kwisiseko seendlebe kunokuthanjiswa ukuze inja iphumle. Yindawo eneziphelo ezininzi zemithambo-luvo ukuze bakubone kumnandi kakhulu.
Emva koko unako ezantsi entanyeni kwaye uqhubeke emqolo. Ukuba inja iyayekelela, iya kugqiba ukungqengqa, ukuze simnike isisu, into abayithandayo kakhulu. Kuyimfuneko ukuba inja iveze isisu sayo kuphela xa iziva ithembekile emntwini, ke ukuba inja yakho ayithembi, oku kuyakuba luphawu lokuba uya esiya ekhululeka ngakumbi kunye nawe. Okokugqibela, sinokugqiba ngemilenze, nangona ayinguye wonke umntu othanda ukuchukunyiswa. Ukuba ufuna ukuhamba, kungcono ubuyele entlokweni yakho, eyona ndawo bayithandayo.