Ngokuqinisekileyo ngaphezu kwesihlandlo esinye uye wabethwa kukuthandabuza ukuba wenzeni ukuze aqonde ukuba wenze into engalunganga; indlela yokuthethisa inja yam ngendlela esebenzayo ngaphandle kokwenzakalisa. Sakhe sazibuza lo mbuzo mnye, kwaye kungenzeka ukuba ukhe weva kusithiwa kufuneka ubabethe ngephephandaba okanye izinto ezinje, okanye kufuneka uthambise iimpumlo zabo ngomchamo wabo ukuze bangenzi kwakhona. Obu buchule buphelelwe lixesha, kwaye azingqinekanga ziluncedo kwaphela; Ngokuchaseneyo: ngokwenza ngale ndlela, ekuphela kwento esiza kuyiphumeza kukuba nenja eyoyikekayo, esiza kusibaleka.
Ngoko ke, Ungayithethisa njani inja ungonzakalisanga?
Ukuze ube neqabane elifundileyo nelonwabileyo elinoboya, izinto ezintathu ziyafuneka: nomonde, ukunyanzelwa y ntlonipho. Xa enye yazo ilahlekile, ukufundisa inja iba yinto enzima kakhulu, kwaye inzima kakhulu, ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba siphulukane ngokukhawuleza nemithambo-luvo kwaye senze izinto esingafanelekanga kwaye ezinokuba yingozi kwinja. Kwangokunjalo, asinakumngxolisa ukuba ngelaxesha analo siziva sinomsindo, kuba ibingazukusebenza nayo okanye, ubuncinci, hayi le ifunwayo.
Ukuba sifuna ukumenza aqonde ukuba wenze into engalunganga, kunyanzelekile yibambe ngalo mzuzu; Oko kukuthi, asinakubagxeka ngento abayenzileyo ngentsasa okanye ngosuku olungaphambi kolo, kuba abanamandla okuba sidibanise iimeko zangaphambili nendlela esisebenza ngayo ngoku.
Ke ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba, xa sele engaziphathi kakuhle, mxelele uQINILE (ngaphandle kokungxola) kwaye ungamhoyi imizuzwana eli-10, emva koko sinokukunika ibhaso nanini na xa utshintshe isimo sakho sengqondo. Kwimeko apho achame khona emhlabeni (okanye ukuba uzimisele ukwenza njalo), ukongeza, siya kumsa egadini okanye sibethwe ngumoya.
Ukuba uyonakalisile ifenitshala, izihlangu okanye iimpahla, nokuba sincinci kangakanani kwimeko leyo kufuneka sinyamezele kwaye Khangela unobangela wokuziphatha kwabo: Ngaba wenza umthambo omncinci? Ngaba udlala nosapho lwakho amatyeli aliqela yonke imihla? Unjani emoyeni? Ngokuphendula le mibuzo singayisombulula ingxaki, ngaloo ndlela siyithintele ukuba ingenzeki kwakhona.
Inkuthazo enkulu.