Lo ngumbuzo obuzwe kakhulu ingakumbi ngabantu abakhe banamava amabi kwezi zilwanyana: indlela yokuthintela inja ekundihlaseleni. Ewe, kufuneka uqale kwisiseko sokuba ezi zilwanyana zihlala zizama ukunqanda ungquzulwano, kwaye kuhlala kukho isizathu sokuba ziziphathe gadalala.
Oku akuthethi ukuba baziguqula zibe zizinja ezinobundlobongela, kuba abacingi ukuba "ndiza kuhlasela loo mntu okanye isilwanyana ngomso kuba benze oku okanye oku kum", hayi. Abanawo amandla okuqiqa. Bahlala ngoku, kwaye abacingi ngengomso. Lo nto, Ungakuphepha njani ukulunywa?
Impendulo ilula kunokuba ivakala: ukunqanda ungquzulwano. Ewe ndiyazi, ngala magama andikuxeleli nto, kodwa yile ndlela. Ukuba sibaphatha ngentlonipho, umonde nothando, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu, ngokuqinisekileyo akunakwenzeka ukuba basihlasele okanye abantwana bethu okanye abatshana ukuba sikhona. Ngale ndlela, ndingathanda ukongeza into: ezincinci zinotyekelo lokubamba imisila yazo, ukuzibamba ngeendlebe kunye nolo hlobo lwento. Ewe, nayiphi na kwezi ndlela yokuziphatha inokwenza ukuba inja ibe nomsindo. Ngesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukucacisela abantwana ukuba isilwanyana kufuneka siphathwe ngentlonipho.
Enye yezinto ezingafanelekanga ukwenziwa kukumngxolisa okanye umbethe, ukuba wenzayo, eyona nto inokwenzeka kukuba uya kuba yinja eyoyikisayo, okanye uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuhlasela. Kwimeko apho inja isondela kuthi ibonakala ixakekile, oko kukuthi, esijongileyo, kwaye isikhonkothe, asizukujonga ngqo emehlweni, kodwa nathi asiyi kubaleka; siza kuma nje apho sizenze ngathi sijonge enye into.
Izinja ezinobundlobongela njengoko kunjalo azikho. Ngaphambili kobundlongondlongo bufihla uloyiko, ukungazithembi okanye kwaneentlungu. Ukuba inja yakho beziphethe ngendlela engaqhelekanga okwexeshana, ungathandabuzi ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze afumanise ukuba uziva engonwabanga.
Iyamangalisa indlela ongathethi ngayo kwinqaku lonke. Yonke into oyithethayo liqela leenyani ezintle. Ukongeza kokuqulatha iimpazamo zopelo. Ukucebisa ukuba bathathe inja enengxaki zokuziphatha bayise kugqirha wezilwanyana, ngokungathi umntwana wakho uhamba ngexesha apho abe nomsindo ngakumbi kwaye umse kugqirha wosapho endaweni yonyango. Ingcezu elungileyo yeengcebiso, masihambe ...
Molo Manuel.
Xa isilwanyana, nokuba yinja, ikati okanye nantoni na, isezintlungwini ezinkulu, inokuhlasela, ngamanye amaxesha ngaphandle kwesizathu "esibonakalayo." Nangona sisilwanyana esihlala siziphethe kakuhle.
A ubingelele.