Inja yinto enoboya esichitha ixesha elininzi kunye nayo. Uyakwazi ukusenza sincume yonke imihla, asinike uthando oluninzi ngaphandle kokubuza nantoni na, kwaye asenze sibonwabele ubomi. Kubuhlungu kakhulu ukuba ixesha lokuphila kwakhe lifutshane kakhulu kuneli lethu njengoko kulula kakhulu kuye ukuba abe ngumhlobo wethu osenyongweni kunye neqabane. Kwaye akukho mntu ufuna ukuthi ndlela-ntle kwabo ubathandayo.
Ngelishwa, lelo lixesha lokuba sonke esiphila ngobushushu kufuneka sidlule, kungekudala okanye kamva. Kodwa, Ungayitsho njani inja? Ungathi ndlela-ntle kwaye kwangaxeshanye udlulise lonke uthando lwethu?
Wazi njani ukuba ukufa kwenja kuyasondela?
Ubomi benja bunokwandiswa, ngokomndilili, phakathi kweminyaka eli-12 ukuya kweli-16. Izinja ezinkulu zinokuphila ubomi obufutshane kunezinja ezincinci, kodwa Zonke zibonisa iimpawu ezifanayo njengoko zikhula, phakathi kwazo kukuphelelwa ngumdla wokutya kunye nobunzima, ukungabi namdla wokungcakaza, iingxaki zokuhamba ngenxa yesifo esichaphazela amalungu (i-arthritis okanye i-osteoarthritis, umzekelo), ukungakhathali, kunye nokubonakala kweenwele ezingwevu (iinwele ezingwevu) ngakumbi ebusweni .
Xa sikrokrela ukuba umhlobo wethu akaphilanga, kufuneka simse kugqirha wezilwanyana ngokukhawuleza, ngubani oya kuthi ayiphonononge kwaye asinike esona sifo sichanekileyo. Ukongeza, iya kuba lithuba ekuya kufuneka sazi, ngaphezulu okanye kancinci, ukuba lingakanani ixesha elishiyekileyo, into eya kuthi isincede sizilungiselele.
Ndingayishiya njani inja yam?
Akululanga kwaphela ukuthi kuthi tu kumntu omaziyo ukuba uneeveki nje ezimbalwa okanye iinyanga ezimbalwa ukuba aphile, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sisebenzise onke amaxesha okusamele sihlale kunye. Logama nje umzimba wakhe ukuvumela oko, sinokumsa kwiindawo apho athanda ukuya khona kakhulu.
Ekhaya, siza kuyonakalisa. Siza kukunika into eninzi yokuteta, kwaye siya kukuvumela ukuba ube lapho ufuna khona. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba masihlale naye ixesha elide.
Xa ixesha lifikile, nangona lisilimaza, kuyacetyiswa ukuba sihlale naye ngamaxesha onke. Ukuba simnika iithoyi kwaye masimbonise ukuba silapho. Ewe, yile nto aya kuyifuna kakhulu: ukubona usapho.
Xa ekugqibeleni ihambile kufuneka sihambe nge-duel. Ngamnye unesingqisho sakhe. Into enokusinceda kakhulu kukuthetha nosapho kunye nabahlobo. Ukuchaza intlungu kuya kusinceda sizive ngcono.
Ininzi, inkuthazo enkulu.
Ndihamba kwimeko ebuhlungu kakhulu, inja yam eneminyaka esi-8 ubudala iyagula ngumhlaza, abathi oogqirha bezilwanyana basixelele ukuba lixesha, uyinja ethandwa kakhulu ekhaya, kuba wayehlala eyinxalenye ebalulekileyo usapho, ngoku ndisazi ukuba uyagula kwaye ngexa elithile uzakundishiya, into endiyifunayo kukuchitha lonke ixesha ashiyeke nalo, ngelishwa ndisebenza imini yonke, kodwa xa ndifika ekhaya Ndifuna ukuzikhulula kuye, undibona ngobuso obubuhlungu kakhulu. Ndiyazi ukuba wayengumlingane omkhulu endabelana naye ngamaxesha amangalisayo, kunzima kakhulu ukwamkela ukuhamba kwakhe. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba akukho magama okanye mzuzu wokukwazi ukuthi ndlela ntle kumntu othandwa kangaka.