El uvalo kunye noloyiko xa ungena emotweni yenye yezona ngxaki zixhaphakileyo ezinjeni. Kule meko, uhambo ngalunye luba yingqushu kwaye luthintela inkululeko yethu, ngoko ke kufanelekile ukuba siqhele ezi zilwanyana kwisithuthi, sizame ukuzidibanisa nento elungileyo.
Inyathelo lokuqala ngu imeko yemoto, Ukucinga ngokhuseleko lwenja nolwethu. Umthetho ubonakalisa ukuba kufuneka kubekho isithintelo ngokwasemzimbeni phakathi kwezilwanyana kunye nomqhubi, ke kunyanzelekile ukuba beme ngasemva bazinike isixhobo esithile esikhethekileyo.
Singabhenela ku ukubopha izilwanyana zasekhaya, into efana kakhulu nebhanti yabantu. Olunye ukhetho luya kuba ngumthwali, kwaye kwimeko yezinja ezinkulu, kungcono ukufaka ikheyiji okanye imivalo yentsimbi eyahlula imoto kwizithuba ezibini.
Ukusuka apho, kuya kufuneka siyiqhelanise nenja ukuhamba ngemoto, ukuyenza ukuba ibe yiyo amava amnandi kuye. Sinokumenza akhwele ngokumnika ukutya okanye into yokudlala, simvuze nangaliphi na ixesha angena kweso sithuthi. Akufuneki siyibhidanise lento ngokumthuthuzela xa enovalo, into esingamele siyenze.
Akulunganga nokuba siqale ngemoto ngaphambi kokuba ibhokhwe ithambe, kuba oku kungoyikisa ngakumbi. Kanjalo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sizole, eya kuthintela inja ukuba ingaziva isemngciphekweni.
Iya kusinceda thatha uhambo oluncinci kunye nesilwanyana sasekhaya amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuze aqhelane nayo, kwaye loo nto kufuneka iphele kwisiphelo esihle kuye. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba umse kugqirha wezilwanyana kuphela, kodwa nakwipaki, ebaleni kunye nakumakhaya osapho apho anokonwabela khona. Kwelinye icala, ukuba ixesha lihamba kwaye inja iyaqhubeka nokuba nesiyezi, kuya kufuneka sibonane nogqirha wezilwanyana.
Isilwanyane sam siyakhala yonke indlela emotweni, ndingenza ntoni