Izinja ziphantse zaba umthombo ongapheliyo wamandla, kufuneka babe semsebenzini rhoqo ukuze bakwazi ukukhupha onke amandla abawaqulathileyo kwaye ukuba akunjalo, amandla ayaqokelelana kwaye kunokubangela ukudakumba kwezi zilwanyana zinoboya. Yiyo loo nto le misebenzi ibaluleke kakhulu kwi impilo-ntle yezilwanyana zasekhaya.
Iingcali zicebisa ukuba zisekwe yonke imihla Iindlela zomdlalo ukulinganisa ubomi benja yethu. Ngaba imfuno yomsebenzi Iya kwahluka kakhulu kuxhomekeka kuhlobo lwayo, ke ngokubanzi, izinja ezinkulu zezona zifuna imisebenzi engakumbi xa kuthelekiswa nezincinci, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba abayidingi, kuba yonke inja iyayifuna uqeqesho lomzimba kwaye kubangcono ukuba kungenxa yemidlalo.
Izinja kunjalo izidalwa ezizimeleyo ngokupheleleyo xa sele bebadala, ke ngoko, bajongana nemfuno yokudlala, bafuna ukuzidinisa kuba bayizinjana kwaye loo nto ngumdlalo sisicwangciso esisebenza njenge iindlela zokufundisa; njengakubantwana, abafunda ngelixa bedlala.
Kule nto ikhankanywe ngasentla, siyaqonda ukuba Umsebenzi wenja kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye bahlala bekulungele oku ngenxa yemfuno yabo yomsebenzi. Kungenxa yoko le nto kwimeko echaseneyo, bomelele Iimpawu ukuba into ayilunganga isilwanyana sethu.
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwenja kunye nomniniyo kubalulekile ukuze buzinzise ubudlelwane obuhambelanayo phakathi kwabo.
Ukongeza, wonke umnini kufuneka afunde Nxibelelana nenja yakho, baqonde ulwimi lwabo, ukuze babone kwaye bazi intsingiselo yeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha ezinokwamkelwa yinja. Ke ingaba yintoni izizathu ezicacileyo kutheni inja ingafuni ukudlala? Kwindawo yokuqala, ukhetho oluza ngokwendalo emzimbeni wakho njengesifo kufuneka luchithwe ngaphandle. Ukuba inja iyagula, yakhe Ukungonwabi komzimba Iya kuba nefuthe elikhulu kwimeko yenja yakho.
Ukulahla oku, Eyona ndlela isebenzayo kunye nengcebiso kukuya kwiziko lezilwanyana apho banokukuqinisekisa khona ngokusekelwe kwizifundo zonyango kwimpilo yezilwanyana kwaye eso sesinye isizathu esinokubangela ukuba inja esandula ukwamkelwa. Ukwamkela inja yinkqubo ekufuneka ilandelwe, kuba ngumntu wasemzini ngokupheleleyo okhokelela kubomi babo, ukuba oku akwenziwa kwaye inja yamkelwe ngaphambi kwexesha, Bonakalisa indlela abaziphethe ngayo iimvakalelo zaboNgokuchasene noko, abo baxakeke kakhulu bane-hyperactivity okanye uxinzelelo.
Ukongeza kweli qela lezizathu ezinokubangela ukuba inja ikwazi Veza ukungabikho komdla xa udlala Kunye nokuswela ukutya, ukubola kunye nokuziphatha okungaqhelekanga, kubangela ukuba babenexhala, uxinzelelo, ukusebenzisa kakhulu isohlwayo uxinzelelo kwizizathu ezininzi, ukunqongophala kokwabelana nezinye izinja, ukunqongophala koqeqesho, ukungabikho kokuhamba okanye ukungabikho kwengqwalaselo kwinxalenye yomniniyo.
Ke yintoni enokwenziwa ngayo? Kanye izizathu zokuba inja yethu ivelise ukungathandi ukudlala, into elandelayo ekufuneka yenziwe kukuhlasela ingxaki enjalo.
Enye yeendlela zokufumana inja ukuba iphinde ibuyele ukumenza azonwabise nezinye izinjaLe yeyona ndlela ilungileyo nesebenzayo yokukhuthaza inja, kuba ngamandla adluliswa zezinye izinja, ichaphazela imeko yethu. Enye indlela yile ukummema ngeethoyi ukuba kwiivenkile zezilwanyana ziyafumaneka kuzo zonke iintlobo zohlobo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ukhethe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo inja yethu ukuba ikhethe eyona iyithandayo.
Okokugqibela, kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo emva koko kwi izinja ezigulayo okanye izinja esele zindala kuqhelekile ukuba bangabonisi mdla ekudlaleni; Ngaphandle koko, kukho into eyenzekayo kwaye kubalulekile ukuyinyamekela.