Khawufane ucinge ukuba sele unawo umhla obekiweyo, sele uyithengile imisesane, isimemo ngasinye sithunyelwe, phakathi kwabanye. Phantse yonke into ikulungele ukuba uthathe eli nyathelo oko kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye ndine-Ewe endiyifunayo kusuku lomtshato.
Nangona kunjalo kukho kodwa ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo, kwaye siyathetha ngenja. Ayisiyo nje isilwanyana sasekhaya, ikwalilungu elibalulekileyo losapho Yiyo loo nto abantu abaninzi bengenakucinga ukuchitha olu suku ngaphandle kwenkampani yabo. Nangona oku awunakukhathazeka kakhulu kuba kukho imibutho enikezela ngeenkonzo zayo ukukunceda kule meko.
Ukuba inja yakho ibitshata, ndingakumema nawe
Enye indlela yee-arhente yenziwe ngokukodwa kubo bonke abo bantu abaqwalasele iqabane labo le-canine njenge ilungu elixabisekileyo losapho.
Njengokuba kusenzeka xa uceba ukumema umntu ngamnye kubantu obathandayo ukuba abekhona nawe ngolu suku lubaluleke ngolu hlobo, Ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe ucinge ukuba inja yakho ikude kulo mbhiyozo. Eyona nto inokwenzeka kukuba, inja yakho ibikunye nawe ixesha elide nangaphezulu kwesi sibini, kwaye ukuba ngaxa lithile umtshato phakathi kwezi zibini uqhawukile, uthando oluboniswa yinja yakho luya kuhlala lungenamthetho kwaye luya kuhlala ngonaphakade.
Ukuze inja ibe yinxalenye yeendwendwe ezikhethekileyo emtshatweni wakho, Unokucela uncedo lomhlobo okanye ilungu losapho Ukujongana nokukhathalela injana ngalo lonke ixesha lombhiyozo.
Nangona kunjalo, kuyacaca ukuba lo mntu uya kuba noxanduva olukhulu, ke ngekhe ulonwabele olo suku, kwaye kungakhona amaxesha apho ungayinikelanga ngqalelo. Kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba ukuba ufuna ukuba inja yakho kunye nezinye iindwendwe zibe nomzuzu ongalibalekiyo, unokujonga umlindi wezinja.
Oku kungenxa yokuba ngenkonzo yabo yemitshato, banokuthatha uxanduva lokufumana okhathalelayo ofanelekileyo ukuze inja yakho izive ilungile kumbhiyozo womtshato. Lo ngumntu oza kukunceda ngenkathalo yakho okoko nje uyifunayo, onokuyisebenzisa ngeli thuba ukuthatha iseshoni entle yefoto apho inja yakho ikhoyo kwaye inokuba yinkumbulo ongasoze uyilibale.
Imitshato ihlala ihlala ixesha elide kwaye ukuba ukhetha njalo, umongi unokukhathalela ukuthatha injana aye nayo ekhaya kwaye uza kuqhubeka ngononophelo ukuze ube nethuba lokonwabela isidlo esimnandi, itheko kunye nobusuku obumangalisayo bomtshato.
Ezinye iingcebiso ukuze yonke into ivele ngokugqibeleleyo emtshatweni
Thetha ngayo yonke le nto ebantwini ababandakanyekayo, nokuba bangoo iindwendwe, umfoti, abasebenzi kumsitho zombini ezoluntu nezenkolo, amalungu enza ukutya, phakathi kwabanye.
Ezinye zazo zisenokungabi njalo kwisivumelwano kwaye kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba uhlala uhlala uzilungiselele kwaye unike inkcazo malunga nesigqibo osithathileyo. Ngokucacileyo lusuku olubaluleke kakhulu nolukhethekileyo kuwe, kuba ukuba ufuna ukuba inja yakho ibekhona emtshatweni, iyakuba njalo.
Kwimeko apho umboneleli angavumelani ngokupheleleyo noku, kufanelekile ukuba uyithathele ingqalelo kwangaphambili ukufumana omnye umntu. Ngokubanzi, abantu obamemileyo ngabo abanokukwazi ngcono, baya kuyazi ukuba inja ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye yiyo lonto beyiqonda imeko. Kwimeko apho kungenjalo, lelona xesha lifanelekileyo lokucinga ngesigqibo esingcono malunga nesimemo.
Ukucwangciswa kunye nokuhlelwa zizinto ezibalulekileyo kwimpumelelo: Ukuba ufuna ngenene ukuba nenkonzo nganye enikezelwa sitter yenja yosuku olukhethekileyo njengombhiyozo womtshato wakho, Kuya kufuneka uqale uyikhangele kwangaphambili.
Olu lusuku apho wonke umntu kufuneka enxibe ngokupheleleyo, eqala ngenja. Njengoko usazi kakuhle, kwi Umtshato uya kuhlala uthatha iifoto ezininzi, ingcali yokufota ikwaqeshelwe ukukunceda uhlale ukhumbula umzuzu onje ebomini bakho.
Kanye njengoko kusenzeka ukuba iindwendwe kunye nesibini bachithe umbhiyozo benxibe eyona intle, kuyacetyiswa ukuba wenze oku kunye neqabane lakho elinoboya. Ayisiyokunxiba inja yakho kwinto engenangqondo, njengoko oku kungathandeki kuso nasiphi na isilwanyana. Kodwa into onokuyenza kukubeka into encinci enje ngetshefu, iqhina elihle lokugoba okanye into.
Musa ukulibala nayo loo nto inja yakho kufuneka ihlambe ngaphambi kokuba ifike Ixesha lomtshato okhankanywe apha ngasentla, kwaye ukuba kukho imfuneko, ungathatha ithuba lokumthatha umse kwinja yokulungisa iinwele.
Kwimeko apho uthathe isigqibo sokuyonwabela i-honeymoon kwaye awunalo nofifi lokuba ngubani onokukhathalela into efunwa yinja yakho, ngendlela efanayo unokukhetha enye indlela yokuqesha iinkonzo zomkhathaleli canido. Ke, ngelixa ukunye neqabane lakho nibhiyozela uthando kwindawo entle, umhlobo wakho we-canine uyakonwabela olona nyameko lukhulu kunye nalo lonke uthando ukuze angaziva elilolo nangaliphi na ixesha.
Eyona njongo iphambili yoku kukuba izinja zihlala ziziva zonwabile xa umnini wazo engekho ekhaya kwaye oko soloko unentuthuzelo abayifunayo, ngolona nyameko lufanelekileyo ukuze bazive besekhaya kwaye kungabikho xesha apho baya kuphoswa yinto.
Ikwayindlela entle yokwenza ubomi bube lula kakhulu kubanini bamakhaya, ukuze ngale ndlela bahlala bezolile Ngexesha lokungabikho iintsuku ezimbalwa okoko benokwazi ukuba inja yabo ifumana lonke uhoyo olufunekayo. Akukho xesha babelindele ukuba uthando olungaka luza kuvela kwiqonga elinje, kodwa kumabali anje anokufumana amava abayixabisileyo.