Abantu kufuneka babize yonke into ukuze baqondane ngcono. Xa sihlala nezilwanyana zasekhaya, nokuba zizinja okanye iikati (okanye ezinye), sibeka igama eliza kuyichonga, kwaye iyasinceda ukuba siqonde ngcono kubo.
Ukuba lixesha lokuqala lokuhlala noboya kwaye ungathanda ukwazi uyenza njani inja ifunde igama lakhe, musa ukuwasusa amehlo akho esweni. Uya kubona ukuba kulula kangakanani ukuyifumana 😉.
Into yokuqala, ngokucacileyo, kukukhetha igama lenja. Ukwenza oku, unokujonga umbala woboya bayo, okanye umlinganiswa onayo. Nangeyiphi ndlela, Kuyacetyiswa ukuba imfutshane, lwelilungu elinye okanye amabini, kuba ayizukubiza mali ukudibanisa nalo; kwelinye icala, ukuba ebenamalungu amathathu okanye nangaphezulu ebeya kufuna ixesha elingakumbi lokuwufunda.
Nje ukuba uthathe isigqibo malunga nento oza kuyibiza, lixesha lokuba ukwazise ukuba ukusukela ngoku kuya kubizwa njalo. Kodwa ke, yinkqubo eza kusithatha iintsuku ezimbalwaEwe, njengoko sisazi, abanakuthetha (ubuncinci, hayi njengathi).
Ke ukuze umfundise igama lakhe kuya kufuneka uliphindaphinde amaxesha amaninzi kwiintsuku ezimbalwa. Umzekelo, nanini na xa wenze into elungileyo, siza kuthi "Toby, kuhle." Igama lihlala lithetha ngaphambiliNgaphandle koko besinokugqibela simenzela ubumdaka kwaye akazukuyifunda. Kwaye ngaphandle koko, kuya kufuneka uyivuze, nokuba kungokunyanga izinja, iseshoni yokuthambisa, ukwanga,… nantoni na oyithandayo; Ngale ndlela, inja iya kuyidibanisa nento elungileyo, ukuze kwikamva elisondeleyo, xa simbiza, uza kuza kuthi kwangoko, esazi ukuba uya kufumana into aza kuyithanda. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo awufuni kuyiphosa.
Inkalipho kunye nomonde, ukuze uhlale ufunda ekugqibeleni igama lakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo.