Ngaba uceba ukuya eholideyini kungekudala? Ngaba wakhe wazibuza ukuba uza kuthatha umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine okanye uza kumshiya ekhaya okanye kwindawo yokuhlala? Oku kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ucaciswe ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, kuba ngale ndlela bobabini kunye nawe banokuzola kwaye nichithe ezo ntsuku okanye ezo veki bonwabile.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuba wenzeni, ungakhathazeki. Sikunceda ufumane impendulo kumbuzo wakho ukusuka »ndenza ntoni nenja yam ngeeholide».
Ngaba ndiyishiya ekhaya okanye kwindawo yokuhlala, okanye ndihamba nayo?
Kuxhomekeke. Ukuba iyakuba ziintsuku nje ezimbalwa, isenokuba sekhaya okanye kwindawo yokuhlala, kodwa ukuba iya kuba nde, eyona nto intle ukuyithatha uhamba nayo. Ngoba? Kulungile ezi zilwanyana abenziwa bodwa, ke kuyacetyiswa ukuba basoloko bephakathi komntu, kwaye kungcono ukuba yeyakho kuba, ngokucacileyo, awunguye umntu ongaqhelekanga kuye. Kwimeko apho umshiya kwindawo yokuhlala, angakukhumbula kwaye angabanobunzima bokuba unamathele kuwe (nangona kunjalo, apha ngezantsi ndiza kukuxelela into onokuyenza ukumenza azole).
Akukho meko kufuneka ushiye ikhaya wedwa, kuba ungaziva uxhalabile kakhulu, kwaye ngenxa yabo, unokuyitshabalalisa ifanitshala nayo yonke into oyifumanayo uzenzele yona, ke ngoko, umonakalo omkhulu. Kwaye konke oku kungathethi ukuba kunokwenzeka ukukhonkotha nokucaphukisa abamelwane, nangona oku kungelongxaki xa sicinga ngendlela inja evakalelwa ngayo iyodwa kangangeentsuku.
Ke, ngokwazi ukuba ewe okanye ewe kungcono kakhulu ukuhlala kukhathalelo lomntu, masibone ukuba kufuneka senze ntoni xa siyishiya ekhaya, kwindawo yokuhlala, okanye ukuba sihamba nayo:
Ungayishiya njani inja ekhaya
Ukuze ushiye inja yakho ekhaya, ndincoma ukuba uqale ukhangele umntu ubuncinci kwinyanga ephelileyo, kuba ngale ndlela uya kuba nexesha elaneleyo lokufumana umntu olungileyo kwaye, ngelishwa, inja yakho iya kuba nakho ukuyazi kwaye uyiqhele. Ewe, akuyomfuneko ukuba lo mntu ahlale nesilwanyana imini yonke, enyanisweni kuya kuba nakho ukondla nje, ukutshintsha amanzi kunye nokuchitha ixesha kunye nayo, kwaye ke, ukuba Ndifuna ukuyisusa ukuhamba kunokuba kuhle.
Kodwa ngenxa yoko kufuneka ibe ngumntu othembekileyo osele umazi, okanye umntu oneembekiselo ezilungileyo. Ke, ukuba uyamazi umhlobo okanye isalamane sakho esifuna ukukwenzela into entle, kulungile, kwaye ukuba awukwazi ukukhetha ukukhangela i-Intanethi umntu ofuna ukukhathalela izilwanyana ngexesha leeholide.
Ukuba ukhetha okokugqibela, ndikucebisa ukuba yenza uhlobo »udliwanondlebe lomsebenzi» ukufumanisa ukuba ungubani, ukuba unezinja, unexesha elingakanani ekhathalela izilwanyana,… kakuhle, ukwazi, ngamagama ambalwa, ukuba ngubani oza kuyishiya inkathalo yenja yakho xa ungekho. Kanye ukuba uyayithanda, unokuyifumana kuvavanyo lweentsuku ezi-2 okanye ezi-3, emva koko unokugqiba ukuba wenze ntoni.
Ungayishiya njani yenja?
Akusoloko kulula ukufumana umntu ofanelekileyo, yiyo loo nto kuhlala kukhethwa ukushiya inja yenja. Kule mihla ngubani omnye ongaphantsi okufutshane, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba bonke bazimisele kwaye banobungcali. Ngesi sizathu, ukuthintela iingxaki kunye nezimanga ezingafunekiyo, kufanelekile ukuba wenze uphando kwi-Intanethi ukufumanisa ukuba zeziphi ezikufutshane nasekhaya, okanye kwanezibuko / isikhululo seenqwelomoya kunye funa izimvo zomntu ngamnye kubo.
Nje ukuba kwenziwe oku, siya kugcina ezo sizifumene kwezona zihle kakhulu, kwaye siza kubatyelela. Oku kubalulekile, kuba kuphela kwendlela ekufuneka sazi ngayo ukuba injani kanye, zizikhathalela njani izilwanyana kwaye ziziphatha njani nazo. Ngendlela, sinokubona ukuba zinjani izibonelelo kwaye sizibonele ngokwethu iinkonzo abazinikezelayo.
Ukufaka enye, inja kufuneka ibe nayo lonke ugonyo oluhlaziyiweyo kwaye lufakwe kwi-microchip.
Uhamba njani nenja
Emva kophando oluninzi, ukuba ekugqibeleni uthathe isigqibo sokuhamba nayo, kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba isilwanyana kufuneka siphile, kungenjalo sinokuba nexesha elibi kuhambo. Ngale nto ithethwayo, masazi ukuba singahamba njani nomhlobo wethu onemilenze emine:
Ngenqwelo-mafutha
Ukuhamba naye ngemoto kuya kufuneka isela ephathekayo ngamanzi, ophethe okanye ibhanti kunye nezixhobo ezikhuselekileyo zokukhusela izinja. Kwaye kukhuseleko lwakho, ngakumbi ukuba unenja enkulu kwaye uyinxibe ngebhanti, kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba ubeke umnatha ukuze inja ingakwazi ukukutsiba.
Ukongeza, awunyanzelekanga ukuba umtyise iiyure ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba ahambe, kuba angamenza abe nesiyezi kwaye agabhe. Ukuba unovalo kakhulu, ungamnika iZylkene, nto leyo ezolisayo eya kumnceda ukuba achithe ixesha elininzi emotweni ekhululekile. Kananjalo uhambo alunakuphoswa: rhoqo emva kweeyure ezimbini kufanelekile ukuphuma ubuncinci ukuzikhulula.
Ngesikhephe / ngenqwelomoya
Xa ucwangcisa ukuhamba ngesikhephe okanye ngenqwelomoya, ngaphambi kokuthenga itikiti kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba Nxibelelana nenkampani apho ufuna ukuhamba ubuza ukuba ingaba zinokuhamba na izinja, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, bazokuzibeka phi. Ayizizo zonke iinkampani ezikuvumelayo ukuba uze nemfuyo, kwaye ezo ziyakuvumayo, azisoloko zikunika izibonelelo ezininzi, kuba zimbalwa kuphela izinja ezinokuhamba kwinqanawa nganye nakwinqwelomoya nganye.
Ke ngaphambi kokuba ubhukishe uhambo, nxibelelana nabo kwaye ubabuze yonke imibuzo onayo ukuze umhlobo wakho ahambe ngokukhululekileyo.
Xa iiholide zifikile sifuna ukuthatha ithuba kwaye sizonwabele ngokupheleleyo, kodwa inja yethu nayo kufuneka ikwazi ukonwaba. Siyathemba ukuba ngale nto ikhethekileyo kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba uza kuyishiya phi kunye nabani.
Yonwabele iholide.