Unokuba ungomnye wabo bantu kunzima kubo ukwenza abahlobo, kwaye ukongeza ekubeni ngumntu oneentloni, usemzuzwini xa uziva ulilolo. Ewe, ukudibana nabantu kufuneka senze eyethu indima, senze imisebenzi kwaye siphume kwindawo yethu yokuthuthuzela. Into elungileyo kukuba nenja inokukunceda ukuba ube nolwalamano ngakumbi.
Ewe zininzi izibonelelo zokuba kutheni Ndinenja, kwaye nathi bangabanini bezilwanyana sazi kakuhle oku. Behlisa amanqanaba oxinzelelo, bakwenze ngakumbi umthambo, bayakukhapha kwaye abasoze bakutyeshele. Kodwa kufuneka sibone icandelo lezentlalo, kwaye zizilwanyana ezinokwenza kube lula ukudibana nabantu esizithandayo njengezilwanyana.
Xa sinenja kufuneka mthathe uhambe naye Amaxesha ngamaxesha ngemini, kwaye sihlala sisiya kwiindawo ezinamasimi okanye iipaki ukuze badlale kwaye sihambe ngokuzolileyo. Kulapho wonke umntu ehamba nezinja. Uya kubona ukuba akukho xesha uya kube uqalise incoko nomnye umnini wesilwanyana. Kwaye ungasoloko uthetha nomntu obonakala enobubele kumxholo wezinja. Baqinisekile ukuba bonwabile ukuthetha ngesihloko abasithandayo.
Kwakhona, ukuba ufuna ukufumana abantu abanezinto ezifanayo zokuzonwabisa, ungabhalisela sebenzisana nabakhuseli yezilwanyana. Kuninzi lwezi ndawo bafuna amavolontiya, kwaye iyindlela yokunceda abanye abanoboya abangekalifumani ikhaya. Kwangelo xesha siza kudibana neqela labantu abaneengxaki ezifanayo.
Olunye uluvo olulungileyo kukuba Joyina iklabhu yezemidlalo canines ukuba yile nto siyithandayo. Siza kudibana nabantu abaninzi, siqeqeshe nenja yethu kwaye sonwabele ukwenza into entsha. Konke oku akusincedi nje ukuba sihlale nabantu, kodwa sikwabeke ecaleni uxinzelelo.