Andikwazi ukucinga ukuba nayiphi inja iyala ithuba lokulala nomniniyo, kodwa abanye babanini Kunzima ukuba uqhele ukulala nezilwanyana zasekhaya, kwabanye kulula kakhulu ukuba babelane ngombhede kunye nezinja.
Nangona kunjalo, asinampendulo kuloo mbuzo kwaye ngumbuzo omnye isigqibo sakho Kwaye ukuba ukhetha ukulala nawe, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba iya kuba yeyobomi besilwanyana sasekhaya, kuba kuya kuba nzima ukuthatha iqhinga elinje kwinja.
Kodwa ngaba inja yam ingalala nam?
Olunye uphononongo lubonakalisile ukuba ezo zinja zixhamla ilungelo lokulala ebhedini nabanini bazo, banokubonisa iingxaki ekuziphatheni kwabo, Babhidanisa ulawulo lwabo entsatsheni baze babe zizilwanyana ezingalawulekiyo nezikhohlakeleyo.
Ngokwenyani akukubi ukuba balale nathi, umbuzo ngowokuba sibafundisa njani kwaye sibavumela ukuba benze ntoni.
Ngokwenyani kuxhomekeke kwindlela efundiswa ngayo, iya kubonisa ezinye indlela yokuziphatha enengcwangu kunye nezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ezibangelwa zizinja ezilala ebhedini, njengokukhusela umntu abalele naye okanye umntu olwalamano oluhle naye xa elala neqabane. Xa ezi ndlela zokuziphatha zisenzeka kubalulekile ukuzicima kwangoko kuba baluphawu lwenja ebalaseleyo.
Kuya kufuneka sazi ukuba inja liqabane lethu kwaye ayilotshaba lwethu, ke ukuba uyafuna ukulala naye, ngoba? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto sisigqibo somntu ngamnye.
Kutheni izilwanyana zethu zikhetha ukhuko lwethu kunezo zabo?
Umbhede wakho mhlawumbi ukhululeke ngakumbi, ikwanika uyolo lokusondela kumniniyo kwaye ngexesha lasebusika, ngokungathandabuzekiyo kushushu.
Kodwa ukuba awufuni ukuba isilwanyana sakho silale nawe, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba inja inebhedi elungileyo kwaye ikufutshane kangangoko kuwe kwaye ungabafumana balale ebhedini yakho, ngexesha apho isilwanyana siyinjana kubaluleke kakhulu ukunqanda ukuzikhulisela ebhedini nakwisofa.
Izinja njengabantwana kufuneka imithethoNangona kunjalo, ikwangabokuqala ukuwaphula.
Nangona kunjalo, ezinye iingcali ziqaqambisa oko kubhetele ukuvumela izinja zethu zilale nathi Emva kokuba bebadala, kuba xa bebancinci kakhulu bahlala bathanda kakhulu kwaye bachama naphina, ukongeza banokuluma nantoni na abayifumana ebhedini ngenxa yokukhula kwamazinyo abo, ke ukuba ufuna ukunqanda intlekele igumbi nakwibhedi yakho, eyona nto intle kukuba uyakuphepha ukulala kuyo ngelixa iyinja.
Ngoku kubalulekile ukuba sithethe malunga imigaqo ekufuneka siyibeke ezinjeni zethu ukuba siyakuvumela ukuba ulale nathi.
Inja kufuneka ibe nokuziphatha okuhle ebhedini, ukuba sithetha ngokufikisa okanye izinja zabantu abadala, kubalulekile ukubavumela indawo yabo kodwa ubazise ukuba kufuneka baziphathe kakuhle xa besebhedini. Kuyimfuneko ukunqanda ukuba inja igubungela umqamelo okanye umatrasi okanye ngamanye amaxesha ihlafuna imiqamelo, ukuba inja iyaphula le mithetho. Kufuneka ube negunya kakhulu kwaye makwazeke ukuba inyhweba yokuba nako ukulala ebhedini ilahlekile.
Ukuba usandula ukuthatha inja yabantu abadala okanye yokufikisa, kufuneka ulinde iiveki ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba umvumele akhwele ebhedini, nokuba ubonakalisa isimilo esihle, kuba ifikelela kwindawo entsha kwaye kufuneka uyivumele ukuba ivumelane nayo. Kubalulekile ukuba ubudlelwane obuzinzileyo benziwe phakathi kwenja kunye nomnini ngaphambi kokuvumela naziphi na izibonelelo ekhaya njengokungena ebhedini okanye nakwisofa.
Mholo! Inqaku elinomdla kakhulu. Ndingomnye wabo bakholelwa ukuba kufuneka uzenze kakuhle iindawo zokulala, kuba ukuba balala endaweni enye qho ebusuku, siyakubaphambanisa izilwanyana zethu kwaye ekugqibeleni ngamanye amaxesha siyabanomsindo xa abo banetyala abanini. Konke okugqibelele!