Into ecebiswa ngumntu wonke kukuba izinja zilala endaweni yazo kwaye kuyimpazamo enkulu ukuzivumela kwiinjana ukuba zihlale kwiibhedi zethu okanye kwisofa esiyithandayo, kufuneka babe neebhedi okanye iitafile zabo. Kodwa into eqhelekileyo kukuba ukuba sinenjana ichitha ubusuku bonke ikhala okanye ikhonkotha kuba ayiyazi indawo okanye ngenxa yokuba uyoyika. Kwaye okona kubi kakhulu, abadinwa, ngamanye amaxesha bachitha ubusuku obuninzi belandelelana belila kwaye belila.
Kodwa ungalahli ithemba, ngokutsho koogqirha bezilwanyana kungathabatha iintsuku ezisixhenxe izinja ziziqhelanise nekhaya elitsha, kwaye ubusuku bokuqala bubona bunzima. Ukubenza balale nathi ngaphambi kweli xesha akuqinisekisi ukuba baya kuziphatha kakuhle, endaweni yoko, xa bekhatshwa baya kuba nomnqweno omkhulu wokudlala kunye nokonwaba, kwaye abasokuze bafunde ukulala bodwa. Ukuba sidibana ukufumana ukuthula, ekuphela kwento esiya kuba nayo yinjana esele isazi ukuba ngokukhala nje siza kwenza le nto bayifunayo.
Siza kukunika iingcebiso ukuze ezi njana ziphumle ngoxolo: kufuneka sizivumele ziphonononge ikhaya lazo liphela. Beka ilaphu okanye ingubo kwiibhedi zabo ezinevumba lomzimba loonina. Ukubeka iwotshi okanye iwotshi ecaleni kwabo, ukuphawula okungapheliyo kuya kubakhumbuza ngokubetha kwentliziyo yoomama kwaye oku kuya kubaqinisekisa kakhulu. Ukuzigcina eshushu ebhedini yakhe kuya kumenza azive ekhululekile.
Ukuba uyabona ukuba njengokuba iintsuku zihamba inja iyaqhubeka ukukhala okanye uxinzelelo, sikucebisa ukuba ubonane nogqirha wezilwanyana. Okwangoku kukho iimveliso zamachiza ezahlukileyo ezinokuthi zibonelelwe yingcali, ziya kuba nakho ukuxolisa le ntlungu.