Izinja zizilwanyana ezisetyenziselwa ukuhlala kumaqela ezentlalo, kodwa inyani yile kunokuba nzima kubo ukwamkela ilungu elitsha losapho elinoboya, ukusukela ngoku ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kuphela kwabo bafumana ingqalelo yethu.
Ke ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungayenza njani inja yam ukuba yamkele injana, Ndiza kukunika uthotho lweengcebiso ukuze, ngokuthe ngcembe, nibe ngabahlobo abangenakwahlulwa.
Into yokuqala ekufuneka siyazi yile yintoni isimilo senja yethu. Ingabonakala ngathi yinto engabalulekanga, into esele siyithatha kancinci, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba simazi umhlobo wethu ukuze sibe nombono ocacileyo okanye ongacacanga wokuba angaziphatha njani phambi kwenye inja. Ke ngoko, ukuba sinethuba lokuya epakini yezinja, kucetyiswa kakhulu ukuba siye. Ke, siyayibona inxibelelana nezinye izinja.
Ngokubanzi, ezo zinja zinomdla wokudibana nezinye zohlobo lwazo, kwaye zenze oko ngendlela echanekileyo, oko kukuthi, ngaphandle kokugquma, ngaphandle kokukujonga, nokuzola, ngabo abaya kwamkela eyona njana.
Enye into ekufuneka uyazi kukuba yenaiinjana zinento eyaziwa ngokuba yi "immpy immunity". Oku kuthetha ukuba angenza nantoni na ayifunayo kubantu abadala, ukuba ekuphela kwento abanokuyenza kuye kukukhonkotha kancinci ngokungathi bathi "yehlisa umoya" okanye "uyeke ukutsiba phezu kwam."
Lo nto, Ungabenza njani ukuba bahlalisane?
- Ngokukhawuleza xa sifika ekhaya, siza kuyivumela inja endala ukuba ijoje injana, iyibambe ezandleni zethu. Kuya kufuneka eyazi ukuba kukho elinye ilungu endlini, kwaye naye ukwalolu hlobo.
- Ngoku, siza kubeka umondli kunye nomseli wenja kwigumbi ngaphandle kwalapho iya kudla khona inja endala. Kwakhona, zombini iibhedi kufuneka zahlulwe.
- Kuya kufuneka siqhubeke nenkqubo efanayo yokuhamba kunye nemidlalo, ukuze inja endala ibone ukuba indlela yayo yokuphila ayitshintshanga kwaye ukuze ingalahli ukuzithemba.
- Emva kweeveki ezintathu, kunokwenzeka ukuba zombini izinja, zombini ezindala kunye nenjana, zikhululekile kunye kwaye zingakwazi, ukusukela ngoko ukuya phambili, ukutya nokulala kunye.
Ngomonde nokuzingisa, ngokuqinisekileyo izinja zakho ziya kuba ngabahlobo abalungileyo 🙂.