Indlela ophulula ngayo inja inokubangela ukuba ube ngumntu amthandayo okanye umntu oya kuhlala ezama ukuziphepha. Kukho ii-caresses ezithile, ziyakholelwa okanye hayi, izinja ziyala kwaye ezinye zichasana noko. Mhlawumbi uyazi apho inja yakho ithanda ukuphathwa khona, kodwa ukuba uyazama bonisa uthando kwezinye izinja, Kuya kufuneka ulumke ngakumbi kwaye uyazi ukuba ungayenza njani.
Ukuba ufuna phulula eyakho inja okanye umntu osandula ukudibana naye, nazi ezinye iindlela zokumthathisa kakuhle.
Iindlela zokubetha inja yakho ngokufanelekileyo
Qala ngokubingelela ngokufanelekileyo
Akufanele uphinde uyifuyise inja engaqali unxibelelwano. Lo mthetho ubalulekile ukuba unamathele kwaye ngakumbi ebantwaneni, abahlala befika kwinja elele phantsi, egumbini egumbini, okanye bezama ukuphuma. Endaweni yokufikelela ngaphandle kwaye uyichukumise ngqo inja, Mmeme ukuba enze unxibelelwano lokuqala ngokuya kuye, ngaphandle kokuyichukumisa.
Kunqande ukujikeleza inja xa uyibulisa okanye bajonge emehlweni; Oku kunokubonwa njengesoyikiso.
Kwimeko yezinja ezibonakala zigcinelwe okanye zisoyikeka, musa ukumbiza, guqulela umzimba wakho ecaleni ukuze ungoyikisi kakhulu. Yenza ngathi awukhathaleli ujonge ecaleni Ngexesha lemizuzu yokuqala, ude ufumanise ukuba uhlunguzele umsila, oko kuthetha ukuba uzithembile
Kwelinye icala, ukuba ujongene nenja ezithembileyo, ungammema ukuba eze kuwe, agobe amadolo kancinci okanye embiza esenza izijekulo ngesandla sakho.
Nika ingqalelo kulwimi lwabo lomzimba
Inja enobubele iya kusondela kunye iindlebe zijikile kancinci kunye nomsila wolulelwe ngasemva ngohambo olukhulu.
Xa inja iphunga umzimba wakho, uqokelela ulwazi malunga nawe, ayikumemeli ukuba uyiphathe. Ukuba uyarhoxa okanye wenza into ekrokrisayo okanye enovalo, sukumphulula. Ukuba ubonakalisa umzimba omdaka, ngamehlo akhululekile kunye nomlomo njengoko esiya ngakuwe okanye eqala ukudibana namehlo amafutshane, oku kungabonakalisa uvelwano kunye nomnqweno wokunxibelelana.
Nje ukuba kwenziwe indlela, cotha inja kwiindawo apho uziva ukhululekile ukuchukunyiswa khona Kwaye inja iyakonwabela ukuphululwa, iya kuxhomekeka ngokubanzi okanye iphinde ifune ukunxibelelana kwakhona ukuze iphathwe. Ukuba inja izama ukuhamba okanye ibonisa ukungonwabi, njengokukhotha imilebe yakhe okanye ukubonisa ezimhlophe zamehlo, myeke; ufuna indawo yakho.
Eyona ndawo intle yokufuya inja yakho
Uninzi lweenja zikhululekile ukubethwa esifubeni, emagxeni, nakwisiseko sentamo, ke xa uphulula le mimandla, zama ukusondeza isandla sakho ecaleni, endaweni yokuhambisa isandla sakho phezu kwentloko yenja. Khumbula, izinja zinamabala athile apho zithanda ukuphathwa khona; Iindawo eziqhelekileyo sisiseko somsila, phantsi kwesilevu, okanye ngasemva kwentamo apho ikhola ibetha khona.
Uninzi lwezinja aluthandi ukuphathwa entloko, kwi-muzzle, iindlebe, imilenze, iinyawo, kunye nomsila, kodwa i-massage ethambileyo inokuyizolisa inja, bayayithanda le nto.
Beka isandla sakho kwindawo apho inja iyakonwabela ukuchukunyiswa kwaye susa ngobumnene isandla sakho okanye iminwe kwicala elinye apho uboya bukhona.
Le caress ithambileyo iya kuba ukuthomalalisa kunye nefuthe lonyango Kwaye ayisiyiyo eyakhe kuphela, kodwa ikwayomntu omcindezelayo, evuna izibonelelo zoqhakamshelwano ekwabelwana ngalo. Xa ubonisa uthando inja ngendlela ekhululekile, ecothayo, kwaye ethantamisayo, baya kuya kuwe, befuna ngakumbi.