Abantu kunye nezinja ziindidi ezimbini ezahlukileyo ezizana kangangeenkulungwane, ezidale inkcubeko edumileyo egcwele iintsomi ezijikeleze inani lethu mascotas, esoloko isikhokelela ekubeni senze utoliko olukhulu gwenxa malunga nokuziphatha okuthile okanye isimilo sesilwanyana.
Namhlanje ndiza kunikezela eli nqaku indlela yokulawula kakuhle ukuba inja yethu iqala ukusiluma.
Intshayelelo
Njengoko sinokucinga sonke, Iiveki zokuqala zobomi benja zibaluleke kakhulu bonke ubomi bakhe. Sele ndithethile ngayo kwizithuba zangaphambili, ukuba zazinjani Ukufundisa kwinqanaba leemvakalelo: uxinzelelo kwiinjana I y Ukufundisa kwinqanaba leemvakalelo: uxinzelelo kwiinjana II, Nangona kunjalo, namhlanje ndiza kunika ubunzulu kumxholo, nditshintshe ukugxila kancinci kwaye ndinike ithoni echanekileyo kunye eluncedo, kuba ndiza kuyenza ngokuchaza isimilo esixhaphakileyo enjeni, njengokuluma, kunye iimpembelelo zemiba yeemvakalelo onayo ngenjana.
Inxibelelana njani nenja yam
Izilwanyana zentlalo
Izinja, njengabantu, zizilwanyana zentlalo, kwaye ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu bohlobo lwabo ngezakhono ezi-5 ezenza ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo besilwanyana sethu. Obu bukrelekrele bemvakalelo buyakhuthazwa kuba bayinjana ngunina, obanika imfundo yeemvakalelo esebenza njengesikhokelo ukuze injana ifumane izixhobo eziyimfuneko ukuze ikwazi ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu emhlambini.
Umama wabo uyabakhuthaza ukusuka kwinqanaba lokuqala lokukhula, ngokuqala kwinqanaba labo lokukhulelwa, apho kubonisiwe ukuba ukukhula komntwana kuchaphazeleka luthotho lwezinto ezishukumayo ukusuka ekubonakaleni kwamehlo ukuya kumanqanaba eehomoni zoomama, eziza kudityaniswa imeko yengqondo kunye noxinzelelo lwamanqanaba okuhlupheka kukamama ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ukuya kwinqanaba lakhe lokuzalwa, apho umama avuselela khona ukuchama kunye nokuzikhupha ngokuhlanjwa kweperianal, okanye intlalontle, eyenzeka kwelona nqanaba libuthathaka kwimfundo yenja yakho, kuba kulapho ukuhlangana namanye amantshontsho enkunkuma kukhula ngamandla kwaye kuqinisa umdlalo, ukuqala ukuvavanya zonke iintlobo zeempendulo kunxibelelwano olwahlukeneyo kwinqanaba lentlalontle, ngaloo ndlela ukuqala ukuphuhlisa izakhono zentlalo.
Ezi zakhono zentlalo zihlala zimiselwa malunga neeveki ezi-4-6 emva kokuzalwa.
Amanqanaba okukhula kobuntu
Kumnxeba inqanaba lentlalontle, iqala ukufunda kwabo kwezentlalo kuyo yonke imiba, ukusuka kwicandelo lokuziphatha kwe-agonistic (njengoko kusaziwa kwi-ethology ukuya ekuziphatheni kwezentlalo okunxulumene nokulwa nezilwanyana), kwiindlela zabo zokuziphatha, indlela yokuziphatha enobundlongondlongo, ukungqubana, ezo zingenisayo, ezo Ukubhabha, ngamafutshane, kulawulo lwentlalo. Kukwakho nezinye ezifana nokuzithemba, umanyano kunye nokwenziwa kwamaqela ngaphakathi komhlambi anokuchaphazela, umzekelo, iipateni zokuzingela, indlela abaziphethe ngayo ngokwesondo kunye nembono yokuma komhlaba eya kuthi ikhule kwinqanaba elilandelayo.
Kule nqanaba, kuqala ukuseka ubudlelwane phakathi kwezinye iintlobo, kubandakanya umntu. Lixesha apho kufuneka ulumke kakhulu, kuba kulula ukubaphatha.
Singahlulahlula amanqanaba ahlukeneyo inja ekukhuleni kokuziphatha kwayo, kwizigaba ezi-7 ezahlukeneyo, ezahlulwe kakuhle, ngokukhula kwayo kunye nokukhula. La manqanaba ngala:
- Ngaphambi kokubeleka (ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe).
- Usana olusandul' ukuzalwa (ukusuka kwi-0 ukuya kwiiveki ezi-2).
- Utshintsho (ukusuka kwi-2 ukuya kwiiveki ezi-3).
- Uluntu (ukusuka kwi-3 ukuya kwiiveki ezi-12).
- Ulutsha (ukusuka kwiinyanga ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-8).
- Umntu omdala (ukusuka kwiinyanga ezi-8 ukuya kwezi-12).
- Ukuvuthwa (ukusuka kwi-1 ukuya kwi-2 iminyaka).
Ngeli xesha, ngokunxibelelana nabanye abantu bohlobo lwakho kunye nolunye uhlobo, uya kuphuhlisa ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo onokuthi Iya kubeka isiseko kubuntu bakho.
Inja yam iwusebenzisela ntoni umlomo wayo?
Unxibelelwano lomlomo + Unxibelelwano lomzimba
Uninzi lwexesha xa ndijongana nomthengi, kuya kufuneka ndiqonde ukuba bafuna ntoni kwinja yabo, elithetha ixesha elininzi Cacisa indlela esebenza ngayo inja, ukuba ziziphatha njani kunye nokuziphatha, ezendalo kwaye ezingezizo. Kwaye ixesha elininzi akukho lula konke konke, kuba uninzi lweengxaki esinazo nabahlobo bethu abanemilenze emine zivela kumcimbi olula kakhulu ukuzichaza: siziintlobo ezahlukeneyo.
Izinja ziyi-canids kwaye siyi-hominids, into ethetha ukuba indlela yethu yokunxibelelana nokuveza izimvo zethu yahluke mpela, eyenza ukuba ukuhlala kunye kube nzima ngakumbi, kwaye kuhlala kuyimvelaphi yazo zonke iintlobo Ukungaqondani ngokungeyomfuneko.
Sahlukile
Kuya kufuneka uyazi imiba ethile ngokoluvo lwam enomdla kakhulu xa isiza kuvavanya oku umahluko kunxibelelwano phakathi kweentlobo zethu ezimbini: umntu kunye nenja.
Abantu bafaka ulwazi kumyalezo esiwuthumela komnye umntu xa sifuna ukunxibelelana naye bukhoma, kwizithuthi ezimbini, enye yona ngomlomo nangenye indlela. Xa sifuna ukuveza into emntwini, sidla ngokufaka ulwazi lwalo myalezo ama-40% kwinto yomlomo, kunye ne-60% kwimeko yesimbo.
Inja yahluke mpela kule nkalo, kuba iipesenti ezingama-99 zolwazi zifakwe ngaphakathi komyalezo kumgangatho wesini kunye ne-1% kuphela kwicandelo lomlomo. Kwaye oku kukuphila nje, kuba ivumela ukuba bahlalutye abantu abanobutshaba kunye neengozi ngendlela ethe chatha.
Kubantu i-prima ihlala ihleli ulwazi oluthumela ngeplanethi yomzimba, oku kubaluleke ngakumbi kunombono womyalezo kwimeko ezininzi. Ukubeka umzekelo okhawulezayo: ukunye neqabane lakho kwigumbi, kusehlotyeni, kushushu kakhulu kwaye ubeka umoya opholileyo ngamandla apheleleyo. Ujonge iqabane lakho kwaye liyazigona lizihlikihla ngokungathi liya konyusa ubushushu bomzimba walo. Uyamjonga umbuze, uyabanda? Athi hayi, kodwa uqhubeka esenza into enye ... ungakholelwa? Okanye ngaba into ebonakalisa ukuba uyabanda ibaluleke kakhulu kuwe kunoko ekuxelela ngokuvakalayo?
Ewe, inja ayinakukuchaza oku ngoluhlobo, kuba inja, ijongene nemvakalelo yengqele, yayiza kuyibonisa ngokuthe ngqo ngokungcangcazela, ngaphandle kokukwazi okanye ukufuna ukutshintsha okanye ukufumana inxenye yomyalezo.
Into ebalulekileyo ukuyichukumisa
Kubantu, chukumisa, imvakalelo yokuthinta ibaluleke kakhulu. Ngezandla zethu senza yonke into, njengesixhobo sokukhuthaza kunye nokuthetha kunye nenye yeempawu eziphambili zomzimba, ngaphandle kwayo, ubuntu abunakuba yile nto iyiyo.
Izandla ziyasivumela Ukusebenzisana nehlabathi kwindiza ebonakalayo, Bamba abanye abantu kunye nabantu bolunye uhlobo, sebenzisa izixhobo, izinto, uchaze iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, ukhusele, uhlasele, kunye nokunye okuninzi.
Abantu abaqhelekanga ukuqonda ukubaluleka kokuchukumisa, oko yenye yezivamvo zethu ezisisiseko, kwaye ikukuphela kwento ongenakuphila ngaphandle kwayo, kuba lilungu lezimvo elinempembelelo yalo ekunzima ukuyiphika okanye ukuyihoya.
Nangona uvakalelo lokuchukumisa lubandakanya umzimba wethu uphela, sihlala sigxila kuthi ezandleni, siyinto eqhelekileyo ebantwini ukuhlalutya izinto ngokuchukumisa. Kungenxa yoko le nto izandla zinendawo efanayo emzimbeni wethu naleyo yamehlo, impumlo, iindlebe okanye ulwimi, kuba iyinxalenye yomzimba wethu esiqhele ukufuna kunye nokufumana ulwazi.
Njengoko esixelela UTomás Ortiz Alonso, UNjingalwazi-Mlawuli we ISebe lezeengqondo kunye noNyango lwezeMpilo. I-Faculty of Medicine kwiYunivesithi yaseComplutense yaseMadrid:
Ukuchukumisa yindlela yokuqala yokunxibelelana phakathi kukamama nosana.
Ngokudibana nolusu lukanina, umntwana ubamba ukungcangcazela kwakhe kunye namava awanikezelayo. Kwiintsuku zokuqala zobomi, oomama nootata banokulwazi usana lwabo ngokulusiphula isidlele okanye isandla somntwana. Kula maxesha okuqala obomi, ukuchukumisa kubaluleke kakhulu kuphuhliso lweemvakalelo zomntwana kunye nomntwana, ngenxa yesi sizathu kwaye ngenxa yempembelelo kwiinkqubo zokuqonda kamva, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bakhulise uvakalelo olunobuchule ebantwaneni babo kwasekuzalweni. .
Ubuntununtunu bokuthambeka kwandisa iimpendulo zomntwana kwindalo esingqongileyo. Ngapha koko, kuphononongo olwenziwe neentsana kwafumaniseka ukuba ukuphululwa ngobumnene kukhokelela kwiintsana ukuba zincume kwaye ziqwalasele ngakumbi ubuso bomntu omdala. Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba abantwana babambe izinto, ukubamba kuya kuba sisixhobo esibaluleke kakhulu, abathi kuso bafumane ulwazi kwindalo esingqongileyo.
Ilungu elilingana nezandla zomntu kwinja yethu ngumlomo. Ngayo unxibelelana nehlabathi ngendlela efanayo kakhulu nento esiyenzayo thina bantu ngezandla zethu. Badlala nabo, bakhothe, bahlambe, baphathe, bazikhusele, baveze iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo zabo, babambe izinto, babile (bakhuphe ubushushu emzimbeni wabo) kwaye, ewe, bayatya basele. Umlomo wenja yethu ubaluleke kakhulu kuye, ulingana okanye ngaphezulu kuthi kunezandla zethu. Thatha oku ingqalelo xa ubeka isicheme kuyo.
Chukumisa inja yam
Ayisiyiyo yonke imvakalelo yokuthinta inja esemlonyeni okanye kwindawo engqongileyo, kodwa ikwanayo noluvo luphuhlisiwe iinyawo, umqolo kunye nepads.
Ukuchukumisa Ingqondo yokuqala ukuba izinja ziyakhula, kwaye iyabanceda ukuba banxibelelane nonina kwaye bafumane inkuthazo kuye ukusuka kwinqanaba lakhe lokuzalwa. Umama iya kuvuselela injana ukusukela nje emva kokuzalwa, ngokubethwa nangokukhothwa.
Iqala njalo i Intlalontle yenja ngokunxibelelana nonina kunye nabantakwabo, unxibelelwano olubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni ngokuchanekileyo kunye nokwakheka ngokuchanekileyo kunye nokukhula kwesimilo sakhe.
Kukho isifo esibonisa kakuhle kakhulu isidingo sothando koomama ezinjeni nasebantwini, esibizwa njalo IMarasmus engokweemvakalelo. Esi sifo sibangelwa kukungabikho konxibelelwano ngumntwana okanye injana kunye nonina. Ndikushiya apha inkcazo yentatheli UMaria Victoria Masi, eyenza icace gca:
Imarasmus, Sisifo esineziphene, esichaphazela abantwana abangakwaziyo ukuseka ubudlelwane, ukuba ayithathiwanga kwangexesha (ukubanakho ukuphinda uqhubeke nomsebenzi ohambelana nomama) umntwana uyasweleka, oku kwenzeka emva kwexesha eliqhubekekayo lokonakala ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasemzimbeni, apho umntwana afaka kuye yonke ingqumbo yakhe, njengoko engenakho ukubeka ngaphandle.
Ngaphakathi kwenkunkuma, inja iya kudibana ngokuthinta namanye amalungu ayenzileyo. Unxibelelwano lokuqala olulawulwayo oluya kuphuhliswa njengoko ekhula luyaluma.
Inja yam iyandiluma
Iindlela zokubalisa
Ukuba inja yakho iyakuluma, kwasekuqaleni ayilulo naluphi na uhlobo lwezifo okanye isimilo esingaqhelekanga, yinto eqhelekileyo, kuba inja yethu ihlala isebenzisa umlomo wayo ukuphonononga nokufunda, kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwindalo yabo yokufunda. Ewe, iimpembelelo zokuluma azifani kubo nakuthi.
Kwilizwe lobudlelwane babantu, ukuluma yinto ebonisa ukuba unomdla omkhulu xa uvakalisa imvakalelo, nokuba yimvakalelo yothando okanye umsindo. Lo mqondo usenza sibone isenzo sokuluma njengento enzulu kakhulu, yindlela esiqhele ukuyibona ngayo kubudlelwane bethu. Amazinyo adityaniswa kusetyenziswa iintsinga zemithambo-luvo kuthungelwano lobuchwephesha bengqondo yethu, ebenza ukuba basondelelane ngokusondeleyo iimvakalelo zethu.
Oku, kunye nokuxhathisa okukhulu kunye namandla omzimba kwinja yethu, kuthetha ukuba xa isiluma, sinokuyiva ngathi yinto enoburharha okanye enogonyamelo kuthi. Kwaye nantoni na ekude nenyani.
Njenjana, inja iluma ukukhangela kunye nokufumanisa umhlaba, kunye nokunxibelelana nokunxibelelana nabanye. Ekukhuleni kwayo ngokweemvakalelo, inja ifuna ukuziva imanyene nomama wayo, abantakwabo okanye kuwe, ngokunxibelelana okunzulu, isebenzisa umlomo namazinyo ayo, ikulume, ekuphela kwento enokuyisebenzisa kwesi sigaba sayo Ukukhula ukubonisa uthando kwinto yakhe yeyona nto ikufutshane ne-caress. Ayikho enye into engaphaya koko.
Umbuzo olandelayo kulula ukuba uqikelele: Y ungathini xa indiluma nzima,UAntonio?
Masiyibone…
Xa izinja ziluma zide zenzakalise
Kuya kufuneka sicinge ngento esengqiqweni kakhulu: enye into kukuba inja yethu injana ukusiphulula ngomlomo wayo ukusibonisa uthando kunye nomnye, usenzakalise. Kucace gca.
Injana iyakusiphulula ngomlomo wayo, isikhothe kwaye sidlale ngokusiluma ngendlela ethambileyo kwaye ngaphandle kokuqina ngokweemvakalelo, apho siva khona amazinyo ethu ngaphandle komonakalo emzimbeni. Sithatha isigqibo sokuba yintoni ubukhulu bokuluma esifuna ukuyifumana.
Xa inja iluma unina okanye abantakwabo, yindlela yokujonga imida, ukuba ikho, ekhoyo kweli qela. Xa inja iluma umama wayo kanzima, uyayicinezela ngokubuyisa uburhalarhume ngomsindo, ngaloo ndlela abeke umda injana ewuqondayo, ngokusekwe kuphindaphindo, yeyiphi indlela yokuluma eyamkelweyo eluntwini, kunye noko kuthathwa njengobundlongondlongo. Le yindlela yokwenza Inqanaba.
Xa le njana iluma abantakwabo kwaye ibenzakalisa, bayamhlasela, babuyise ubukrakra ngomsindo, eyona mvakalelo yendalo, kwangaxeshanye bayeke ukudlala naye, kwaye bangamhoyi kuwo nawuphi na umsebenzi. Injana iya kufuneka ifunde ukulawula amandla ngokuluma kwakhe ukuze wamkelwe liqela kwaye uzive unamathele kulo, Esona sesona sizathu sokukhuthaza izinja, njengezilwanyana zentlalo ezizizo, kukuziva zamkelwe kwaye zidityanisiwe kwiqela.
Thina bantu senza into efanayo, sibahlukanisa ngokwasentlalweni abantu kwiqela okanye eluntwini, nakoluphi na uhlobo lomtya intlalo-qoqosho-inkcubeko. Nokuba kuse-ofisini okanye eyadini yesikolo.
Ndingenza ntoni ukuze ndifundise inja yam xa indiluma kabuhlungu
Xa inja yethu iyinjana, iya kudibana nathi njengoko ibinokwenza nonina okanye nalo naliphi na ilungu lenkunkuma yayo, njengoko bendichazile ngaphambili. Ngaphakathi kolo lwalamano kuya kubakho ukuhlangana, apho kufuneka sithathe isigqibo sokuba iphi na imida kwaye uyazi indlela yokuzihambisa, ngaphandle kobundlobongela kwaye ngaphandle kwengcinezelo, zihlala zilungile. Ukujonga umba osesandleni, ukuseta umda kwinja ngokokulunywa kukuchaphazeleka, kusengqiqweni kwaye kubalulekile kwimfundo yesilwanyana, ukuze ukuhlala kunye kube noxolo ngakumbi.
Ukwenza oku, kufuneka simfundise esemncinci ukuthintela ukuluma, Ngale ndlela, lahla iingxaki ezizayo. Ukufundisa inja ukuthintela ukuluma kwayo xa inja injana kulula.
Xa sidlala naye, kwakamsinya nje ukuba amazinyo akhe asibeke uxinzelelo kuthi siqwalasele ukuba iphume kule nto siyifunayo, siya kuthi hayi, siqinile kwaye somelele, kwaye siza kuyeka ukunikela ingqalelo, ukutsala kude kwaye ungayihoyi. Oko kulingana nokuya umama wakho esenza umda kuwe.
Ukuba inja yakho indala kunonyaka omnye kwaye ikuluma izandla, iinyawo okanye impahla eyomeleleyo, Kuya kufuneka uye kwingcali kwimfundo ye-canine, ukukunceda uqonde kwaye uguqule indlela abaziphethe ngayo, ukuba kukho imfuneko.
Masiphinde
Inja isebenzisa umlomo wayo ukwenza into engaphaya kokutya okanye yokuluma, ikwasebenzisela ukusebenzisana. Kuxhomekeke kuthi nakwimfundo ukuba sidlulise, ngokubeka imida, ngaphandle kobundlobongela okanye ubundlongondlongo, ukuba injana yethu iyazi ukuba nini kwaye nini, kwaye ngaphezulu kwayo yonke into ngamandla okusebenzisa umlomo wayo.
Ukubulisa kunye enkosi kakhulu ngokundifunda. Ukuba unayo nayiphi na imibuzo, ungandibuza amagqabaza ngeli nqaku.
Sakubonana kungekudala kwaye unakekele izinja zakho.