Zininzi izinja ezinengxaki uxinzelelo lokwahlukana kwaye banexesha elibi ngokwenene xa abanini babo bengekho ekhaya kwaye kungekho mntu ukhona. Yiyo loo nto bephula izinto, bekhonkotha imini yonke, okanye bezikhulula ekhaya. Kodwa zikhona iindlela zokuthintela oku ukuba kungenzeki, kwaye ngoku nditsho neebhatyi ezichasene noxinzelelo zenzelwe izinja ezinexhala lokwahlulahlula.
Ezi iibhatyi zoxinzelelo Abasombululi ingxaki ngokwabo, nangona bencedisa. Ngokwenyani kufuneka senze unyango olubanzi ukuze inja ingoyiki xa sisiya emsebenzini okanye sifunda. Bamele bazi ukuba siza kubuya kwaye sizole. Kukho iindlela ezithile eziye zasebenza kwezi meko ekufuneka uzigcine engqondweni.
Ijacket yokulwa noxinzelelo yenzelwe yenza uxinzelelo kwezinye iindawo zenja, kwiindawo ezithile apho uxinzelelo lunyangeka khona ngokukhangela. Lunyango olungayi kubenzakalisa, ke kuyathakazelisa ukuzama. Kodwa njengoko sisitsho ngokwayo isenokungasebenzi ngokupheleleyo.
Izinja ezinolu xinzelelo kufuneka chitha amandla amaninzi bangoyiki, yiyo loo nto kufuneka sibakhuphe ngaphambi kokuba sihambe kwaye sibanike uhambo olunye olude ngosuku ukuze baphumle. Kukwabalulekile ukuziqhelisa ukuphuma ekhaya. Ngenye imini sikhululekile singaphuma siye kubona ukuba basabela njani. Kuya kufuneka ulinde ukuba bakhululeke ukuze bangene kwakhona.
Kwelinye icala, kulungile ukushiya ezi zinja into enuka ngathi, njengejezi endala, kuba oku kuya kubenza bazive behamba kunye. Yinto edla ngokwenziwa neenjana ukuze zingalili ebusuku kwaye ixesha elininzi lisebenza. Singashiya nokuzonwabisa, okunjengeethoyi zaseKong, ezinamabhaso ngaphakathi, ukubaphazamisa.