Kuyamangalisa ukuba bangaphi abantu abacinga njalo abantwana abancinci kunye nezilwanyana Azihambelani. Nangona kunjalo, kwanenzululwazi iyangqina ukuba silungile xa abantwana benesilwanyana ebuntwaneni, kuba izisa iinzuzo ezinkulu. Abagcini nje ngokugcina inkampani kwaye babe liqabane lakho lokudlala, kodwa bakulungele nokunyanga iingxaki zobuntwana kunye nexinzelelo.
Ukongeza kwizinja zonyango, ukuba nenja ekhaya kunye nabantwana kunokuba baninzi inzuzo kubo, nkqu kwicandelo lezempilo. Ke ukuba ucinga ngokuza nenja ekhaya, ungabona zonke izizathu zokuba ingumbono olungileyo ukuba kukho abantwana ekhaya.
Abantwana abakhula nezilwanyana zasekhaya komeleza ukuzithemba kwabo ngabo, enkosi kubudlelwane ababumiselayo kunye nothando abalubonisayo bobabini. Ukongeza, kuye kwafakazelwa ukuba kunokubanceda ukuba babe novelwano ngakumbi kwaye babe nokuhlalisana ngakumbi xa kufikwa kumba wobudlelwane.
Ezinye izibonelelo zokuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya kukuba bafunda ngokukhawuleza ukuba yintoni uxanduva. Kwaye inja kufuneka ityiswe kwaye ibe namaxesha ayo okuhamba. Ukuba sibavumela bathathe uxanduva kuyo nayiphi na le misebenzi, siya kuba sibanceda ukuba baqole.
Ngeengxaki zokutyeba kakhulu kunye Ukuhlala phantsi Kubantwana namhlanje, ziindaba ezimnandi zokuba izinja zinceda abantwana ukuba bazilolonge yonke imihla. Kuya kufuneka ubakhuphele phandle kwaye baya kudlala nabo ekhaya, ke baya konwaba ngakumbi xa behamba kunaphambi komabonwakude okanye ikhompyuter.
Isibonelelo sokugqibela ekufuneka siqwalaselwe kukuba ukuba nenja kuyabanceda ukuba bakhule kancinci utywala kwiminyaka ezayo. Isilwanyana sasekhaya sizigcina kwimeko apho ziqhela khona iintsholongwane kwaye ngenxa yoko umzimba wazo uyazikhusela koku kwaye awunazinto zingalunganga xa umdala.