Ayaziwa ngokuqinisekileyo apho inkolelo yokuba inja nekati ziintshaba zendalo. Nangona kuyinyani ukuba umahluko omkhulu kubalinganiswa phakathi kwezi zimbini kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki, sikwafumana inani elifanelekileyo lamatyala apho uthando kunye nobuhlobo bulawula phakathi kwezi zilwanyana. Ke ngoko, sifumanisa ukuba obu butshaba abuyonto yintsomi nje.
Iintlobo zentlalo
Zombini inja kunye gato zizilwanyana ezinentlalontle ezisekayo ubudlelwane obuphezulu nemihlambi yabo. Ngokuchasene noko ngamanye amaxesha kukholelwa, bobabini banokuba bepakethi enye ngaphandle kwengxaki, ngaphandle kokuba bobabini bafuna ukuzibeka njengabaphathi. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba umniniyo abe ngoyena unesi sihloko, ukuthintela umlo ovela kwimeko yawo.
Iinyanga zokuqala
Ngomonde kunye neendlela ezifanelekileyo zemfundo sinokufezekisa ukuba inja kunye nekati zihlala kunye ngentlonipho kwaye zibe yiyo Abahlobo abalungileyo. Oku kunokwenzeka nangaliphi na ixesha, nangona kuya kuba lula kakhulu kuthi ukuba baqala ukusebenzisana neenjana. Kubalulekile ukuba bobabini bayazi indawo yabo kulawulo oluphezulu, befumana ukuphathwa ngokulinganayo kuthi.
Nangona kunjalo, iziqendu zekhwele, ukungabinako ukuhlala kunye nezinye iingxaki zinokwenzeka, ezinokuthi ukuba zibi kakhulu ziya kufuna uncedo Ingcali. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi ukuba ukuhlala kakuhle akunakwenzeka okanye iikati nezinja ziintshaba zendalo; bafuna nje ukwazana kwaye baqiniseke ukuba abazisongeli.
Hlonipha indalo yabo
Esinye sezona zitshixo zokufezekisa ukuhlalisana phakathi kwezinja kunye neekati hlonipha iiyantlukwano zabo. Masikhumbule ukuba, nangona benokuba sisikhonkwane nenyama, indalo yabo ineempawu zayo. Ukuba siyabahlonipha kwaye sifumana nesinye isilwanyana sasekhaya ukuba sibanyamezele, akufuneki sifumane ubutshaba phakathi kwezi zimbini.