Ngamanye amaxesha siqaphela isimilo esithile esingaqhelekanga kwizinja zethu esingenakuziqonda iinjongo zaso. Umzekelo sisithethe se yitya ingca, into eyenziwa zizinja ezininzi kwaye enika iintlobo zeethiyori. Ngokuqinisekileyo eyona yaziwayo yile ithi izinja "ziyadla" ukuze zizicoce, nangona kungekho bungqina bobunzululwazi bokukungqina oko. Iingcali ezininzi zibonisa ukuba le yintsomi.
Ukunqongophala kwezifundo ngalo mbandela kunye nenyani yokuba izinja azihlali zigabha emva kokutya ingca, hlwayela amathandabuzo. Inyani yile yokuba namhlanje isizathu sokuziphatha asaziwa; nangona kunjalo, batshixiwe ezinye izinto ezinokwenzeka, Ukongeza kwiplagi.
Ezinye iingcamango
Kukho ezinye iinkcazo, njengangaphambili, ezingaqinisekiswanga luluntu lwenzululwazi.
- Ukuziphatha okuvela kwilifa lakho. Enye yezona mpikiswano zidumileyo ngokubhekisele kule ndlela yokuziphatha. Ookhokho babo, iingcuka, batya ingca ngezilwanyana ezitya utyani, zibangela izinja ukuba zitye ingca.
- Ukungabikho kwezondlo. Ukuba isilwanyana asizifumani zonke izakhamzimba eziyimfuneko ngokutya kwesiqhelo, siya kuzama ukuzifumana nangezinye iindlela. Enye yazo kukusetyenziswa kwengca.
- Incasa emnandi. Akufuneki siyiphawule into yokuba imifuno imnandi ezinjeni.
Ukunqongophala kwezifundo zesayensi
Ngaphandle kokuziphatha okuqhelekileyo, akukho zifundo zenziwe ngalo mbandela. Nangona kunjalo, kufanelekile ukuqaqambisa uphando olwenziwe ngo-2008 zizazinzulu ezivela IYunivesithi yaseDavis yaseCalifornia, ikhokelwa nguKaren Sueda, uBenjamin Hart noKelly Cliff, yaza yapapashwa kwiphephancwadi lezenzululwazi Isicelo sokuziphatha kwezilwanyana.
Inxalenye yokuqala yayo yayiquka ukwenza uphando lwabafundi bezilwanyana abangama-25, apho bonke babonisa ukuba izinja zabo zazisitya ingca rhoqo kodwa yi-8% kuphela ethi bayagabha emva kwayo. Abaphandi baqhubeka nodliwanondlebe nabanini be-47; Ama-79% abo bawuqhelile lo mkhwa kwizilwanyana abazifuyileyo, kodwa kuphela ngabantu abathandathu ekwenziwe udliwano-ndlebe nabo ababone ukugabha. Bayandisile idatha ngodliwanondlebe nabanini be-1.571 ngaphezulu, apho i-68% ibonakalise ukuba izinja zabo zitya ingca rhoqo, nangona kuphela yi-22% egabhe emva koko.
Ke ngoko, isifundo sigqibe kwelokuba le ndlela yokuziphatha ayinxulunyaniswa naso nasiphi na isifo okanye isisu, okanye ukungabikho kweevithamini. Abaphandi babetyekele ekucingeni ukuba yindlela yokuziphatha eyazuzwa njengelifa kookhokho babo.
Ngaba kufuneka siyivumele inja yethu itye ingca?
Ngokomgaqo, ayifanelanga ukwenzakalisa umzimba wesilwanyana okoko ingca ivela kwindalo. Nangona kunjalo, ukugqitha kunokubangela iingxaki zesisu. Kwakhona, kufuneka siziphephe izityalo eziyityhefu kunye namayeza anyangiweyo.