Abantu abahlali kunzima ukubaqonda abazali bethu, nokuba sele kudlule iminyaka ndingababoni, kodwa… kuthekani ngezinja? Inyani yile yokuba lo ngumbuzo abaphandi abazibuze wona, abathi ngokuthe ngcembe bafumane iinkcukacha ezithe kratya malunga nokubanako kwaba bantu banoboya bokuqonda abo babathandayo.
Ngoku bayayazi impendulo, kwaye ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba iyakumangalisa. Ke Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba izinja ziyabaqonda na abazali bazo, sukuyeka ukufunda! 🙂
Ixesha elibalulekileyo lezinja
Izinja, ukusuka kwiiveki ezi-2 ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-3 ubudala, zidlula kwinto eyaziwa ngokuba lixesha elibalulekileyo. Ngezo ntsuku banomdla kakhulu kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo kubo; Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bafumane ngokukhawuleza ukuba yintoni, okokuqala, ukhuseleko kunye nothando lukamama wabo, emva koko, ngeenyanga ezimbini, ukufudumala (ukhuseleko, ukuthembana, ukuthoba) kwikhaya lomntu elilungileyo.
Ukuba yonke into ihamba ngendlela ebekufanele ukuba ihambe ngayo, oko kukuthi, ngaphandle kothuko okanye ukwenzakala kwalo naluphi na uhlobo, iinjana ezikhula nabazali bazo ziya kuba nako ukubabona xa sele bebadala; nangona kunokwenzeka ukuba kunzima kubo ukuba baqonde oomama babo kunoyise, kuba xa beziintsana bachitha ixesha elininzi kunye naye.
ICanine ivumba
Inja yokuziva ivumba iphuculwe ngakumbi kunathi. Idlala labo levumba libanika ulwazi oluninzi oluvela kwabanye kwiintsapho zabo nakwezinye izilwanyana. Ngesi sizathu, UGqr Lore Haug, ugqirha wezilwanyana kwindlela yokuziphatha kwezilwanyana, urhanela ukuba Enkosi kobu buchule banokubabona abanye abaye banxibelelana nabo kwanangangeminyaka emva kokuba bohlukene.
Ewe, ngekhe babenolwazi ngolwalamano ababenalo noboya, kodwa inxenye yabo iya kubaxelela ukuba bayazi, bazi kakuhle. Ukusuka apho, zimbini izinto ezinokwenzeka:
- Inye: mabonwabe kakhulu kwaye banike omnye nomnye izikhotha;
- Okanye ezimbini: ukuba basabela kakubi; Oko kukuthi, bayagquma okanye omnye kwaba babini ajike. Ngokucacileyo oku kuyakwenzeka kuphela ukuba babenamava amabi kwixa elidlulileyo.
Uyabazi ubuso?
Kubantu, abanye baninzi kwaye abanye bancinci, akukho nzima kuthi ukuba sibukhumbule ubuso (ndiyanyanzelisa, kuxhomekeke kubani 🙂), kodwa ayisiyiyo yodwa: indalo ikwanike inja yethu abahlobo ukuba babe nakho. Ingakumbi: Ayikwazi nje ukububona ubuso bezinye izinja, kodwa akunzima kakhulu kubo ukuba bazi ukuba yeyiphi na umntu eyinxalenye yesangqa sabo sabazana okanye esingeyiyo.
Le yinto abaphandi abayichazileyo kuphando luka-2009. Babonisa uthotho lwezinja iifoto zobuso bezinye izinja abazaziyo, kunye nezinye zezinja ezazingaqhelekanga kubo. Basabela njani?
Njengoko kuvela, bajonge ixesha elide kwiifoto zezinja abazaziyo, nto leyo icebisa ukuba bathathele ingqalelo ubuso babo xa behlula phakathi kwezinja ezinoboya ezaziwayo nezingaziwayo. Obunye ubungqina bokuba ezi zilwanyana ziyakwazi ukubaqonda abazali bazo.
Abantwana banokubabona abazali ... kodwa okuchaseneyo akunakwenzeka
Iinjana nezinja ezindala ezingaphantsi kweminyaka esixhenxe zihlala zingenangxaki yokuqonda abazali bazo, kuba ixesha lokujonga kubo lide. Nangona kunjalo, xa isampulu yabantu abadala idityaniswa nabazali bayo abangaphezulu kweminyaka leyo abanakukwazi ukubabona abantwana babo.
Ngaba esi sihloko sinomdla kuwe? Ukuba kunjalo, ungathandabuzi ukwabelana nabahlobo bakho kunye / okanye nosapho.
Molo, inja yam ngumalusi wase-Australia, sele ineminyaka emi-2 ubudala kwaye ummelwane wam unoyise, aba babini bahlala kunye kodwa mva nje inja yam iyamkhonkotha, iyamgquma kwaye ayimvumeli ukuba enze nantoni na. thina noyise kuphela unika Wajika wahamba, sinomdla kwaye yiyo loo nto ebuza ukuba izinja ziyaqaphela abazali bazo, kule meko kuphela uyise wabo.