Izinja ngokubanzi bayancwina njengohlobo lonxibelelwano, ukutsala ingqalelo yethu kubo kunye neemfuno zabo. Ke ukuba unenja ekhaya egcuma rhoqo, kufuneka siphaphile, kuba ayiqhelekanga ukuyenza ngaphandle kwenjongo ethile.
Amaxesha amaninzi ezi zililo zinokutshintshwa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zezikhalazo, njengokukrwela phantsi okanye iphepha lodonga eludongeni. Ezi ndlela zokuziphatha zihlala zivela kuphumlo olungaqhelekanga kwaye ukuzama ukunqanda kunokubenza baqinise ngakumbi, kuba baya kubona ukuba abanalo ingqalelo abayicelayo.
Kodwa zeziphi izizathu zokuba izinja zikhwaze?
Kulindeleke ukuba izinja ezivakalise ezi zimbonono, bayadika kwaye indawo abakuyo incinci kakhulu ukudlala, ukubaleka nokuchitha onke amandla abanayo kwimizimba yabo emincinci.
Nangona kunjalo, esi ayisosizathu sokuba bagqume, banokubonisa nezinye izizathu ezinje ukunqongophala kokutya okanye nakuphi na ukuphazamiseka emzimbeni.
Ngaba izinja ziyakhalaza xa zidikiwe?
Ukunika impendulo emfutshane nechanekileyo, ukuba bayayenza. Ukuba sinokubakho kwesilwanyana sasekhaya esikhalelayo okanye esikhalayo rhoqo endlwini, impendulo ihlala ithi EWE, kodwa ukuba inja yakho iyadika, eyona nto ilungileyo kukucinga Singayenza njani inja yethu ukonwabisaKhumbula ukuba inja enesithukuthezi inokuhlala ikhala kwaye ikhonkotha, kwaye isimilo esibi sinokuhamba nayo.
Ezinye izinja banokwenza ingxolo engaqhelekanga ngeempumlo Ngendlela yokuncwina, ukufumana nje ingqalelo, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba izinja ngokucacileyo azikwazi ukuthetha, ke ukwenza ezinye iintlekele kwindawo ezikuyo iya kuba yindlela yokubonakalisa ukuba ufuna into.
Kwimeko yenjana, baya kuthatha into yokudlala abayithandayo bayise kumniniyo, Hlikihla impumlo yayo ngesimo sokukhala kunye nezandi ezithile zokulila Ukufumana ingqalelo, enye indlela enomdla ngayo injana kukuqala ukujikeleza. Kwezinye iimeko bahlala belele phantsi ngeempumlo phantsi, nangona kunjalo nganye kwezi ndlela zokukhalaza isisombululo silula, dlala okanye hambahamba kunye nesilwanyana.
Izinja kunjalo esinye sezona zilwanyana zihlala khona kwaye ukusebenzisana nabanye kubalulekile, ngoko ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uhambe nayo yonke imihla, ukuba ucinga ngemidlalo eyenzelwe izinja kuphela, oku kungenza umbono wenja yakho ngobomi utshintshe kwaye ubenze bazive ngakumbi inomdla kwaye kubalulekile ukuba njengabanini bayo Ukusebenzisana kuyamanzi kwaye kuhlala kunjaloThetha nabo, udlale ngebhola okanye ngethambo lerabha, ubase kwipatiyo okanye kwindawo evulekileyo kwaye ubakhuthaze ukuba bajikeleze indlu, kuba akukho silwanyana sifanelwe bubomi obukruqulayo.
Ngoku kuya kuthini ukuba besele ndidlala ngesilwanyana sam kwaye ukukhala kusaqhubeka?
Ukuba sele udlalile, uthathe isilwanyana sakho uhambahamba, phakathi kwezinye izinto, kwaye sisagquma kangangoko kukuba izama ukubonisa enye into eyifunayo.
Eyona nto icetyiswayo kukuba uqale ngokunikezela ngamanzi, enyanisweni yinto ekufanele ukuba isoloko ifikeleleka kwisilwanyana sakho, ukuba ayiphenduli emanzini, yinike ukutya. Ngokwesiqhelo emva kokukhupha inja kufuneka uphumle kwaye ulale, ke unokuyenza yonke imisebenzi oyilindileyo ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngayo, ke ukubakhupha uhambo ngumbono olungileyo.
Kukho izinja phuhlisa izakhono zonxibelelwano ezinkulu ezizodwa kubanini bazo, inyani yokwenza imisindo elula okanye izijekulo, nokuba ujonga nje, zibenza baqondwe ngokukhawuleza. Ngamafutshane, zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni inja yakho ingakhalaza, nokuba kunjalo ukunqongophala kokutya namanzi njengoko besesitshilo okanye siphume kukudikwa, nangona kunjalo ngamanye amaxesha bayakhalaza ngolonwabo okanye ingxaki yempilo.