Namhlanje baninzi abantu abathi phakathi evekini okanye ngeholide babeke i yinyamekele inja yakho komnye umntu. Abo banabahlobo okanye usapho abalukhathaleleyo banokuzola, kodwa ukuba kufuneka sikhethe umntu esingamaziyo, sithandabuza ukuba ingaba ngumntu olungileyo na.
Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka sifunde ukwenza qaphela umntu ngubani owaziyo ukukhathalela nokuphatha izilwanyana zomnye oza kuzixhalabisa ngomvuzo wabo. Ujongene nesilwanyana sasekhaya, kwaye kuba eyinxalenye yosapho lwethu sikhathazekile kukuba usezandleni ezilungileyo. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokukhetha ukuhlala kweenja ezilungileyo.
Into yokuqala ekufuneka siyenzile ukukhangela sisalathiso esithile ukuba inokwenzeka. Kule mihla, kuthungelwano lwentlalo kulula ukufumana ulwazi malunga nomntu, kwaye ukuba uqhuba ishishini apho unakekela izinja, siya kufumana into, enje ngabathengi kunye nezimvo.
Ukuba oku akwanele okanye asinalo ulwazi oluninzi, kuya kufuneka ke Dibana naloo mntu. Kufuneka simbuze eminye imibuzo, ukubona ukuba ukhathalele ezinye izinja, uchitha ixesha elingakanani ekhaya, uzihamba ixesha elingakanani kwaye uzithatha phi kwaye nayo yonke into enokubonakala ibalulekile kuthi.
Enye into ekufuneka siyigcinile engqondweni kukuba kufuneka sibone i indawo apho kuya kubakho inja yethu. Baninzi abantu ababakhathaleleyo ekhaya, abanye banegadi okanye indawo yezinja. Nokuba kunganjani na, kufuneka sijonge ukuba inja iya kuba kwindawo elungileyo kwaye iyahlangabezana neemeko zempilo ezifunekayo. Ukongeza, uninzi lwaba banonopheli banezinye izilwanyana zasekhaya, kwaye kufuneka sazi ukuba kwangaphambi kwexesha ukuba baya kuhlala nenja yethu.
Okokugqibela, ngaphambi kokushiya inja, kuya kufuneka thatha uhambo lokuhlala nenja kunye nesilwanyana sasekhaya. Ke siza kubona ukusebenzisana phakathi kwezi zimbini. Kulula ukuqaphela umntu othanda izinja kwaye okwaziyo ukuzikhathalela, ukuziqonda nokuzilawula, kwaye ekuhambeni siza kukuqinisekisa.