Inja Isilwanyana esithandwa ngabantwanaNgokukodwa xa becinga injana enomlomo wayo omanzi, amehlo ayo elambele uthando, ubungqongqo bayo kunye nentando yokudlala nangawuphi na umzuzu.
Izinja zezabantwana ogqibeleleyo amaqabane Kwaye izinja zikwanika umdla kubantu abadala, kokubini kukhuseleko abalunika indlu, kunye nobuhle beentlobo ezininzi, ngaphandle kwenkampani, nokuba enkosi kwezi zinja sizakwenza abahlobo abatsha ngenxa yomnqweno abawuvusayo xa behamba esitratweni.
Iingcebiso zokukhetha inja efanelekileyo
Silungiselele isikhokelo esisisiseko ukucebisa ezinye zeendlela onokuthi ukhethe ngazo inja efanelekileyo usapho lonke, ukuba kunokwenzeka wenze impazamo xa ukhetha, ukhuthazwa ngamehlo amancinci agcwele ubumnene benjana ekhangeleka ngathi sisilwanyana esigxothiweyo.
Kuhlala kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina engqondweni ukuba ukukhetha isilwanyana sasekhaya esitsha Kubaluleke kakhulu kuye wonke umntu ohlala ekhayeni lakho, kodwa ungaze ulibale ukuba ilungu elitsha losapho lwakho liya kuba noxanduva lwenu nonke ubomi benu bonke.
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyiphephe yile yenza ukhetho lwesilwanyana esitsha kuthathelwa ingqalelo ukubonakala kwesilwanyanal. Ke ngoko, akufuneki:
* Khetha kuphela ubuhle bayo
* Ubumnandi bamehlo akhe
* Okanye umbono wokuqala malunga nokuziphatha kwabo
Ukukhetha inja ekhuthazwa zezi mpawu kungakhokelela kwimpazamo ephindaphindayo kwiintsapho ezininzi kwaye inja eye yasithimba ngokuba nobushushu obugqithisileyo obufana nobenjana, inokukhokelela umntu omkhulu obalaseleyo ofuna umnini wesandla ozinzileyo ukwenzela ukuba ingabi yinja enobushushu obungalawulekiyo.
Zininzi ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe ngaphambili ukukhetha inja elungele lonke usaphoUmzekelo, qiniseka ukuba wonke umntu kusapho lwakho uzimisele ukuyamkela inja. Masithathele ingqalelo sonke ukuba ngaba kuyakubakho ixesha elaneleyo lokujongana neemfuno yelungu elitsha losapho lwakho, kuba ukuhamba kunye nexesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa kubalulekile, ngakumbi injana.
Ukongeza, kubalulekile ngaphambi kokukhetha uhlobo lwenja, ukuzixhasa kwizinto ezinje nge indawo oza kuba nayo, Ukuphepha izinja ezinkulu ezizalayo kwindlu encinci.
Okokugqibela, jonga iindleko oza kuba nazo xa isilwanyana sakho ube nobomi obutofotofo, njengokutya, ukugonywa okanye indlu yenja, iimfuno zonyango ezinokubakho ebomini bakhe, iithoyi, ukuhamba, njl.
Ngaba usapho lwam lukulungele ukwamkela inja?
Musa ukukhawuleza ukuya yiza nesilwanyana sasekhaya esitsha Kwaye ukunqande ukuthenga ngokungxama kwivenkile yezilwanyana, kungcono ukuya kwindlu yenja okanye indawo yokuhlala kunye nokwamkela.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukwazi okungakumbi ngenja nganye, ke kuya kufuneka uthethe nabanini beenjana, umzekelo, xa kufikwa ekufumaneni ezinye iinkcukacha malunga ukhathalelo oluyimfuneko ngococeko, impilo kunye nokuzonwabisa.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyazi ukuba kufuneka gonya injana ngokupheleleyo, ngaphambi kokuba ikwazi ukufikelela esitratweni, kuba injana inokutya nantoni na esitratweni kwaye igule.
Ivenkile yezilwanyana zasekhaya lolunye uhambo olunomdla onokuthi uluthathe kunye nosapho lwakho lonke, kuba kuya kufuneka ujonge konke Imigca yeemveliso eziyimfuneko ezikhoyo ekunyamekeleni inja yakho, iminquba, uya kufumana iithoyi, ukutya kunye neetrayiki.
Kule meko, uya kuqonda Umahluko omkhulu phakathi komnye nomnye wabo Ngokuchasene noko unokucinga, ezinye izinja ezinkulu neziphakathi zilungelelanisa kakuhle kwiindawo ezincinci, kodwa ezinye azenzi njalo.
Nokuba ungakhetha uhlobo luni na lwenja, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ngononophelo malunga nendlela yokuyikhulisa inja. Ngokubanzi, uninzi lwezinja zinokuba nazo isimilo esilungeleleneyo, ukubonelelwa ngokufumana imfundo engatshintshiyo.