Inja inoboya obuhlala butyebile. Xa efumana into ayithandayo, uyitya ngolangazelelo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ngokukhawuleza, nto leyo enokubangela iingxaki. Kufuneka wenze ntoni kwezi meko?
Ukuba awuyazi indlela yokwenza into ukunceda umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine, Thatha ingqwalasela kwiingcebiso zento ekufuneka uyenzile ukuba inja yam iyaminxa esiyinikezela ngezantsi.
Hlala wehlile
Yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba inja isibona ukuba sinoxinzelelo, iya kuba noxinzelelo ngakumbi; Ngenxa yoko, uya kuphefumla ngokukhawuleza kwaye imeko akuyo iya kuba nzima kakhulu, kuba uyakuphefumla into, ngaloo ndlela ayityhale kwiindlela zomoya. Ke ngoko, kwaye nangona sisazi ukuba kulula ukuthetha kunokwenza, kufuneka sihlale sizolile.
Thetha naye ngelizwi elipholileyo, kwaye umbethe ukuze akwazi ukugxila ekugxothweni kwento.. Akukho meko kufuneka ubeke isandla sakho emlonyeni wakhe, kuba uya kuba nobunzima nangakumbi ekuphefumleni.
Mncede nge-Heimlich maneuver
Ukunceda inja ekrwitshiweyo, into enokwenziwa kukuhamba kweHeimlich. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uphakamise imilenze yangasemva kwaye uzibambe phakathi kwemilenze yakho. Ngale ndlela, iya kuxhaswa kwimilenze yayo yangaphambili nentloko phantsi. Ngoku, Yigone ngezantsi kovalo kwaye usebenzise uxinzelelo de inja ikhuphe into oko kwamthintela ekuphefumlweni okuqhelekileyo.
Buza ugqirha wezilwanyana
Ngokukodwa ukuba into enkulu kunye / okanye ekhonjisiweyo iginyiwe, njengethambo umzekelo ophekiweyo, kuyakufuneka uthathe inja uye kugqirha wezilwanyana Ngaphambi kokwenza nantoni na. Ngoba? Kuba nantoni na esinokuyenza ekhaya ayinakusebenza kuphela, kodwa singayenza mandundu imeko yabo.
Siyathemba ukuba eli nqaku beliluncedo kuwe ukuze wazi ukuba wenzeni ukuba inja yakho iyaminxa.