Amaxesha amaninzi sihlala siyinika inja yethu into esiyityayo kuba isibuza ngobuso obuhle obaziyo kuphela ukuba bunxitywa njani. Kodwa kufuneka sihlale sazi ukuba ngumbono olungileyo na ukondla ukutya okuthile kuye. Umzekelo iziqhamo, Esicinga ukuba zisempilweni kubo nakuthi, zinokuba yingozi ngamanye amaxesha.
Qaphela ezo ziqhamo ekufanele ukuba babe nazo ngezihlandlo ezinqabileyo kuphela, kwaye indlela yokubanika, kuba kufuneka sikhathalele oku. Izinja zitya zingazi ukuba zinokukrwitshwa okanye zitye into ebenza bagule, kungoko ke thina kufuneka sikhathalele impilo yabo esiswini.
Ukuqala, kufuneka siziphephe iziqhamo ezinazo iswekile eninzi kakhulu. Izinja zinokuphuhlisa isifo seswekile ngokulula, kwaye kukwakho neentlobo ezinomdla wokufumana ubunzima, ke konke oku kufuneka kuthintelwe. Iibhanana kunye neediliya ziphakathi kwazo. Ukongeza, iidiliya zineembewu, ezinokuthi zibenze bazive kakubi xa zityiwe, ke kungcono ukubanikeza kuphela amaxesha ngamaxesha kwaye ngaphandle kwembewu nolusu.
Iziqhamo ezinje iipesika okanye iiapilkosi kufuneka zixutywe, kwaye zisuswe nembewu, ezinokuthi ziminxe ngayo. Ezi ziqhamo zinesikhumba esomeleleyo, esinokukhokelela kwingxaki kwisisu sakho okanye sikubangele ukuba ukrwitshe. Ukongeza, ezi ziqhamo zivelisa igesi, yiyo loo nto zinokubangela iingxaki zesisu kunye nokudumba ezinjeni. Kuphephe ukubanika iziqhamo rhoqo.
Ngokubanzi singabanika iziqhamo kunye nokunye ukutya okusempilweni, kodwa ukuba baziqhelile ndicinga ukuba zezabo amathumbu sUyabona naye uchaphazelekile, kwaye unorhudo. Yiyo loo nto singasoloko sibanika ukutya okusempilweni, kodwa ngokumodareyitha. Ukuba sibona ukuba kukho into engalunganga kubo, kufuneka siyeke ukukunika, kwaye ukuba urhudo okanye iingxaki zesisu ziyaqhubeka, yise kugqirha wezilwanyana.