Kutheni inja yam igquma?

Ngokophando, i-growl Isilumkiso sokuba into ejikeleze inja ayilunganga okanye ayikokuthanda kwakho, ke ngoko kubalulekile ukuba unike ingqalelo ukuze wazi ukuba ufuna naluphi na ulungiso emva koko.

Izinja zizilwanyana zommandla, nangona benokubonisa imbeko kwaye babanyamezele abantu kunye nezilwanyana ezihlala zibangqongile, nayiphi na imeko engaqhelekanga inokubangela ukuba bangonwabi kwaye bagule, umzekelo, kukho izinja ezithile abakuthandi ukusondela kukutya kwabo, xa sizama ukubaphilisa kwaye baneentlungu, ukuba uza kususa into yokudlala abayisebenzisayo, enobukho bomntu okanye isilwanyana esingaqhelekanga.

Masazi izizathu zokuba kutheni inja igcuma

Xa isilwanyana sethu sigquma, into yokuba siyamazi ibalulekile kuba ngaloo ndlela siya kuba nakho ncedisa kwimeko loo nto ibangela ukuba ungonwabi kunye noxinzelelo. Amaqokobhe enathi, inja iyabhomboloza isilumkiso ukuba into ethile ayikho endaweni kwaye iyakukhathaza, oko akuthethi ukuba unengcwangu.

Kwindawo yokuqala, sukuyiphelisa ingxolo yenja ukusukela njengoko besichazile ngaphambili Isilumkiso sokulumkela. Into eyingozi malunga nokuthintela ukugquma kwenja kukuba usityeshele isilumkiso kwaye uye ngqo kwisenzo sokuluma.

Ngoku ukuba ifikile kuloo nto inja iyangxola enkosini yayo Ngokudelela igunya lakhe, kubalulekile ukunika ingxolongo enamandla kunye nokuzibeka njengenkokeli phambi kwenja.

Ukuba, kwelinye icala, siyayiqonda loo nto kukho into ephazamisa inja kufuneka siyichonge ukuze silungise apho kufanelekileyo. Kodwa ziziphi izinto ezinokuphazamisa isilwanyana sethu? Inyaniso yokuba Sondela kukutya kwabo ngelixa usondla, Umama uyacaphuka kwaye azikhusele xa ekunye neenjana zakhe, ngelixa esebenzisa iithoyi zakhe, xa bebona isoyikiso isuka kumntu ongaqhelekanga, xa ephikelela ephazamiseka kwaye evakalelwa kukuba bangena endaweni yakhe.

Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuba inja yethu iyabhomboloza

Ukusukela ebutsheni kufuneka sifundise inja yethu ukuba yeyiphi indawo ekhaya, i umlungise xa esenza into engalunganga, sebenzisa ukutya kwakhe ngelixa esitya, chukumisa iithoyi zakhe ngelixa azisebenzisayo, sebenzisa ibhedi yakhe, thetha naye ngelizwi elikhulu, mnike iiodolo usebenzisa ii-monosyllable ezinje, "hayi", "hlala", "myeke" kwaye uhamba naye ngokuma ngokuqinileyo, konke oku inja iyifaka njengophawu lwegunya.

Ngaphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko akufuneki sibe nobundlobongela nezinja zethu, ubuncinci ukuba zikhathazekile, iingcali zibonisa ukuba ngamanye amaxesha xa isilwanyana siphuma kulawulo, kufuneka yenza isandi esikhulu Njengentsimbi, ikhatshwa lilizwi ukuyizolisa, uyisebenzise nanini na xa kufuneka kusebenza. Ngexesha lemidlalo, izilwanyana zethu zidla ngokugquma kwaye kubalulekile ukufumanisa ukuba naphantsi kwaziphi na iimeko inokuba bubundlongondlongo, ukuyilungisa okwangoku kunye nokuqhubeka nokwabelana nokudlala kuko okucetyiswayo.

Njengabaphathi, Kuyimfuneko ukuba sizazi izandi ezikhutshwa zizinja zethu kunye nolwimi lwabo lomzimba, nokuba babe nakho ukuqinisekisa abantu besithathu abathi, ngenxa yokungazi, batolike gwenxa a ukukhonkotha okanye isenzo sobubele yesilwanyana ngobundlongondlongo okanye ukuyeka okanye ukulungisa ukungalunganga kokuziphatha koku, ukugcina omabini amalungu ekhululekile kuya kuvumela ukuhlangana ngokuchanekileyo, akufuneki silibale ukuba izinja ziyaziqonda ukwesaba kunye nobuthathaka kwaye ngethuku labo basebenzise ithuba lokunyanzelisa.

Ukwazi i Ukuziphatha kohlobo oluthile, Isinceda ukuba sikunikeze uqeqesho olwaneleyo kwaye isinceda ukuba silindele nayiphi na indlela yokuziphatha engafanelekanga ebeka unxibelelwano lwakho nabanye abantu kunye nezilwanyana emngciphekweni.

Ngethamsanqa, kulula ukuyifumana izikolo zoqeqesho ezizodwaThina, iingcali kuqeqesho lwezinja eziza emakhayeni ethu, sikwaneetekisi, iinkqubo zikamabonakude kunye nolwazi olukwi-Intanethi olusemnyango, ukufumana ulwazi nenkxaso ngalo mbandela.