Ukuba kukho indlela yokuziphatha kwenja yethu etsala ingqalelo yethu kuninzi lwethu, kukukhotha ngokuchanekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha okubizwa ngokuba ngu "kiss" okanye "doggy kiss" ngabo bazithandayo ezi zilwanyana. Kodwa, Wakhe wazibuza ukuba kutheni izinja zikhotha abantu?
Nangona bekwenza oko kuba besithanda, zikho ezinye izizathu endiza kukuxelela apha ngezantsi.
Ulwimi lomzimba wezinja lilinganiselwe, kuba azikwazi ukuthetha njengathi. Ke ngoko, kufuneka babonakalise oko baziva ngeendlebe zabo, amehlo, umlomo (ulwimi kunye namazinyo), kunye nomzimba wabo, besebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuma. Ukuthathela ingqalelo oku, siyazi ukuba:
- Xa benayo ukoyikaInto abayenzayo kukuba imisila kunye neendlebe zithotyiwe, kwaye bayakhotha neezinki zabo.
- Xa benayo indlala, bavula imilomo ngelixa bekhotha imbeza yabo ngokugqithileyo, ngakumbi xa sele bekubonile okanye kunuka ukutya kwabo.
- Xa zikhona uvalo kakhulu okanye uxhalabile, ziyazikhotha ngokugqithileyo.
- Xa befuna phuma phandleUkongeza kokonwaba kakhulu, banokukhotha okanye bakhothe ubuso bakho.
- Xa bayacoca bayakhotha, kanye njengoko umama wenza nabo xa babenjenjana.
- Xa befuna ukufumana uthando olungakumbi, Uyakukhotha isandla sakho ukukuxelela ukuba uqhubeke umphulula.
- Xa zikhona ukwenza uphandoAbasebenzisi imilenze yabo kuphela, kodwa nomlomo wabo ukufumana ulwazi ngakumbi.
Ngaba kufuneka siyivumele inja ukuba ikhothe ubuso bethu? Ewe, kuxhomekeke kakhulu ekubeni uyandithanda na ukuba ndikunike "ukwanga." Nangeyiphi ndlela, Ungaze umvumele ukuba ayenze ukuba uyagula / sigula / okanye ukhe watya into angafanelekanga ukuyenza, kuba ngaphandle kokuzifuna sinokumosulela, okanye ukuba uyososulela. Kodwa ukuba zombini isilwanyana kunye nomntu usempilweni, akukho sizathu sokuba kungenakufumana "ukwanga" okukuboya.