Siyathemba ukuba ayenzeki kuwe, kodwa ukuba uyibonile isilwanyana sakho urhuqa umsila wayo emhlabeni ukurabha indawo yangasemva, mhlawumbi ufuna ukutyelelwa ngugqirha ngokungxamisekileyo!
Oku kuziphatha kwinja kudla ngokubalelwa kubukho be sisidleleli esiswini (iintshulube), kodwa eneneni le ngu imposiso. Esi simo sengqondo singenxa yotshintsho olwenziwa yinja kuyo amadlala perianal, njengoko igama layo libonisa, zikwicala le-anus.
La madlala ane- into ebonakalayo bendiza kuba nantoni iipropathi zezazisi malunga nenja eyaziwayo phakathi kohlobo lwayo, yiyo loo nto indlela yokuziphatha eqhelekileyo izinja ezijoja indawo yangasemva ngokudibeneyo, ke unokuyithelekisa le njengentetho phakathi kwabantu, kuphela kule meko izinja ziyahlangana kwaye ukutshintshiselana ngolwazi malunga nesondo labo kunye nezokwabelana ngesondo okanye impilo, kuhlala kunuka.
Nangona kungekho sivumelwano kufikelelwe kuso phakathi kweengcali, kuqikelelwa ukuba utshintsho Ingasokola amadlala perianal, kwaye oko kuya kukhokelela inja ukutsala umsila wayo emhlabeni, inokwenzeka xa into ekuyo iqinisa kancinane okanye ihlaselwe, oko kuthintela ukwahlulwa kwayo ngamadlala, kubangele inja iintlungu neentlungu ukuba angazama ukulungisa ngokurabha umsila wakhe emhlabeni ukuzama ukuzikhupha.
Ukuba ayinyangwa ngexesha, le ngxaki inokuba mandundu de ivele izilonda kwindawo perianal ebizwa ngokuba yifistula, ke ukuba uyayibona indlela oziphethe ngayo kwisilwanyana sakho, musa ukuyibeka kwiintshulube, thethana ngokukhawuleza kugqirha wezilwanyana oya kuthi abenako ukubona eyona ngxaki kwaye enze ngendlela efanelekileyo.