Ukuvumela inja ukuba ihlale eyadini okanye egadini yendlu yethu isesisiqhelo esiqhelekileyo namhlanje, nangona iingcali zinyanzelisa ukuba eyona nto izinja iphila ngaphakathi ekhaya. Kwaye kukubavumela ukuba bachithe ixesha elininzi ngaphandle kuthwala iingozi ezithile kwimeko yabo yomzimba neyengqondo. Sikuxelela ukuba ziziphi.
Ukuqala, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba izinja zizilwanyana ezinobuhlobo. Kwindawo yasendle bahlala kunye emhlambini, benza ulwakhiwo lobume obunikezela ukhuseleko kunye nozinzo ngokweemvakalelo. Ukuba siyikhuphele ngaphandle inja kwindawo eyodwa, siya kuba senza ngokuchasene nendalo kunye nokungalingani kwengqondo. Ndiza kuziva ndedwa, lusizi kwaye azikhuselekanga, ezinokuthi zikhokelele kubundlongondlongo kunye nakwiingxaki zentlalo.
Kwelinye icala, xa isilwanyana sihlala ngaphandle sijongana neengozi ezininzi. Ezoyikekayo imbonisco ngomnye wabo; okukhona inja ichitha ixesha elide ingekho ekhaya, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba yosulelwe yingcongconi ethwele esi sifo, isanti. Isebenza ngexesha leenyanga ezishushu, ngakumbi ngongcwalazi nasebusuku.
Ukongeza, uya kuba semngciphekweni omkhulu wokubandezeleka ngokubethwa bubushushu, ngakumbi ukuba awunandawo yokuhlala. Isenokuba njalo ibiwe okanye ityhefu ngokulula, kunye nokukhathazeka kwesikhumba, ukungahambelani komzimba, ukuhlaselwa kwamaze kunye namakhalane.
Kwinqanaba leengqondo, inja ehlala ihleli yodwa iya kuthi iphazamisane nokuphazamiseka okubangelwa kukukruquka kunye nokudakumba. Umzekelo, banokubonisa isimilo esingalawulekiyo kunye ukudakumba okunzulu. Ngapha koko, iingcali zithi inja ehlala njengentsapho kulula kakhulu ukuyifundisa kunaleyo ihlala yodwa, kuba ngale ndlela ayinakho ukuseka iqhina elisempilweni kunye nabanini bayo.
Ngamanye amaxesha sicinga ukuba ingaphakathi lendlu ayisiyondawo ifanelekileyo yenja ngezizathu zococeko okanye kuba inokwenza umonakalo kwifenitshala. Kufuneka sazi ukuba xa samkela isilwanyana kusapho lwethu siyanyanzeleka ukuba sijongane "neengxaki" ezithile ezinje ngezi. Singayenza ngomonde kwaye ngoncedo lomqeqeshi oqeqeshiweyo, ngaphandle kwesidingo sokwenzakalisa isilwanyana okanye uyisuse ebomini bethu.