Nangona inokubonakala ngathi ngumbuzo osisiseko ngokupheleleyo, inyani kukuba kukho abantu abalahlekileyo ngandlela ithile kulo mbandela, kwaye kukho amabali amaninzi kunye nemibono malunga nokuba mabenze ntoni kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi benja. Ngeli xesha kuyimfuneko izilumkiso ezigabadeleyo, kuba amajoni akho omzimba awomelelanga kangako, kwaye ukuba uyagula singalahleka.
Igumbi lokuhlambela linento yokwenza nethuba lokunciphisa ukuzikhusela kwenja, kodwa kukho izinto ezinobunzima xa usenza isigqibo singayihlamba nini inja. Ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nokuhamba rhoqo kuxhomekeke kwimeko nganye, nangona kukho imigaqo ngokubanzi ekufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo xa sihlamba inja.
Xa umama ukuncancisa injanaAkufuneki ihlanjwe, kuba ivumba lenja lelona elenza ukuba umama alazi ukuba lelakhe. Kwimeko yeekati ezilahlekileyo, kukho iimeko zoomama abalahla iikati zabo ukuba kukho umntu obachukumisileyo, kuba abasanuki ngokufanayo. Ngale ndlela, kuya kufuneka ulinde ukuba badlule kweli nqanaba.
Kwelinye icala, baninzi ababuza ukuba banokuhlamba na nangona bengekabinayo zonke izitofu. Ewe unako, kodwa lumka, kuba ayikhuthazwa le nto. Isizathu kukuba ukuba siyayenza gwenxa, ibhafu inokuyenza ibande inja kwaye igule, kungoko iyathintelwa ide ibe inezikhuselo ezinamandla zokujongana nezi meko.
Ukuba inja yakho ingcolile kwaye ayinakulunga akukho ndlela yimbi ngaphandle kokumhlamba Ngenxa yokuba ungayiniki icocekile okanye ngokosula okuqhelekileyo kosana, ungayenza, kodwa kwindawo elawulwayo, enamanzi afudumeleyo, kwigumbi lokuhlambela apho kungabandiyo kwaye emva koko wome ngokupheleleyo ngesomisi.