Kukangaphi usitya ngokuzolileyo kwaye ngequbuliso uqaphele ukuba uboya bakho obuxabisekileyo busondele buza ukutya? Kwaye ngoku, omnye umbuzo, umnike iziqwenga kangaphi? Ewe ndiyazi, kunzima KAKHULU ukuphepha olo jongo luxabisekileyo ngokukubuza, "nje" isiqwenga esincinci, ukuluma, kwaye akukho nto; nangona sisazi kakuhle ukuba "ayikho enye into" ayiyonyani ngokupheleleyo, kwaye uyakuhlala ufuna okungakumbi.
Inja sisilwanyana esidlakudla, esinokutya nanini na kunokwenzeka, yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba siyazi ungayithintela njani inja yam ekufuneni ukutya xa ndisitya.
Ukuthintela ukuphazanyiswa xa sisitya, kubalulekile ukuphepha ukumnika ukutya. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba sinike nokuba sisiqwengana sokutya kwethu ukuba singcamle, akukho xesha, kuba kungenjalo iyakuqhela ukubuza kwaye kuyakufuneka siyenze ingaqhelekanga, into enokwenziwa, kwaye ngoku ndiza kukuxelela ukuba kanjani, kodwa ukuba siyondla kuphela ukutya kwayo, siya kukuphepha ngaphezulu kweyodwa ingxaki.
Ngoku, kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuba inja sele iqhelile ukunikwa ukutya ngumntu? Lonke usapho kufuneka lubambisane ukuze isilwanyana siyeke ukukwenza. Njani? A) Ewe:
- Ungayihoyi inja: Ayinamsebenzi nokuba uyakhala okanye uyakhonkotha. Kubalulekile ukungahoyi. Ekugqibeleni, iya kudinwa.
- Beka ibhedi ecaleni kwakho umse khona: inja ifuna ukuba nosapho lwayo, ke ndiyacebisa ukuba ubeke ibhedi kufutshane, kwaye umse apho qho xa ikhonkotha okanye icela ukutya. Nje ukuba ahlale kuyo, yithi "STILL" (ngokuqinileyo, kodwa ungangxoli), kwaye umphathe kakuhle.
Kufuneka uhlale rhoqo kwaye usebenze naye yonke imihla. Kodwa ngomonde kuyenzeka. Ngokuqinisekileyo 😉. Yizame kwaye uza kubona ukuba okwangoku inja yakho iya kuziphatha ngcono njani.