Izinja ezingamadoda zihlala zinayo Ithuku lokuphawula indawo yabo kunye nokushiya imiyalezo ngale ndlela kwizinto. Ukuba inja ifundisiwe ukusukela ebuntwaneni ukuba yenze yonke into engaphandle kwekhaya, kunqabile ukuba iye kumakisha ifanitshala ngaphakathi, kuba iyazi ukuba ayinakuyenza, kodwa baninzi abathathelwa luthando lwabo kwaye uphawu lwefanitshala kunye nezinye izinto ekhaya, ngengxaki yezempilo.
Ukuba sifuna ukukhusela inja ucofe ngaphakathi ekhaya, emva koko kufuneka senze ezinye izinto esinokuthi sizihoye kwaye zinokuyandisa ingxaki. Kuqhelekile oku emadodeni amancinci, kodwa nokuba simthathile njengomntu omdala angasoloko efunda ukungakwenzi oku ezindlwini.
Into yokuqala esinokuyenza ukuyiphepha le yeyona nto isengqiqweni ukuyenza, emalunga nayo zalisa inja. Oku kuya kubathintela ekubeni babe neengxaki kumalungu okuzala kwinqanaba eliphezulu, ukuthintela amathumba okanye usulelo. Ngale nto awusayi kuphinda ube nesidingo sokumakisha izinto, okanye ubuncinci uza kuyenza rhoqo, kuya kuba lula kuthi ukukufundisa.
Ukuba unezinto oziphawula rhoqo into yokuqala yile zicoce kwaye uzisulele iintsholongwane zilungile, kuba ukuba zinevumba elincinci, ziya kuziphawula kwakhona. Kufuneka simhoye xa esondela kubo kwaye ebanuka, kuba kufuneka simkhalimele xa esenza, ukuze aqonde okungalunganga.
Njengalapha sikholelwa kuyo iimfundiso ezakhayo, eyona nto sinokuyenza kukumvuza xa ephawula izinto ngaphandle kwekhaya, ukuze aqonde ukuba le yindawo efanelekileyo yokwenza, hayi ngaphakathi kwendlu. Ngale izikhokelo zincinci kunye nomonde othile singayifundisa inja ukuba iyeke ukumakisha ngaphakathi endlwini.
Ngaba inja yam inokukhulelwa kwakhona kubushushu obulandelayo emva kokuba izale inkunkuma yayo yokuqala? okanye kufuneka ndishiye ixesha elininzi