Ukuba ujonga injana, emva kokuba uyiqwalasele ngononophelo kwamkelwa, Nalu ulwazi olubaluleke kakhulu ekufuneka uluthathile ingqalelo kwaye yiyo khetha injana elungileyo kwinkunkuma ayingomsebenzi olula.
Impazamo eyenziwa ngabantu abaninzi kukukhetha injana abacinga ukuba yiyo intle, kuba kulula kakhulu ukuthandana nomntwana onombona oxabisekileyo, kodwa ayisiyiyo le nto ubufanele ukuba uyayifuna kwaye yiyo loo nto ukhetha injana kwinkunkuma kukwathetha ukuqaphela ezinye izinto, ezibaluleke ngakumbi.
Uyikhetha njani injana elungileyo kwinkunkuma?
Ngaphandle kwe Yiba nesilwanyana sasekhaya kwaye udlale ngayo, zininzi ezinye izinto onokuzenza nenja yakho kwaye ukhumbule ukuba isilwanyana sakho asizukuhlala ngonaphakade injana, iya kukhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye ndiza kuhlala nawe iminyaka eli-10 ukuya kweli-15 ubuncinci.
Abazali abasempilweni
Kuyaziwa ngoku ukuba impilo yenja Kuxhomekeka kakhulu kubazali bakhe, ke ukuba ukhetha injana elungileyo kwinkunkuma unabazali abasempilweni nabasempilweni, injana kusenokwenzeka ukuba ibe neempawu ezifanayo.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba injana inayo abazali abagulayo abaneziphene abazuzwe njengelifa Njenge-dysplasia, kukho umngcipheko wokuba ibuthathaka, le yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo xa ukhetha injana yakho.
Thenga a injana egulayo kuba ngexabiso eliphantsi, ngumngcipheko onokuthi ukhokelele phezulu iindleko zonyango lwezilwanyana kwilixa elizayo.
Siyazi ukuba intliziyo yakho iyanyibilika xa ubona a injana egulayo nengafunekiyo kwaye ungathanda ukumsindisa, kodwa cinga ngazo zonke iintlungu ekuya kufuneka uzinyamezele kwixa elizayo ukuba unenjana egulayo, ke ngoko kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba udibane injana yabazali Kwaye yile njengoko besesitshilo, kwiimeko ezininzi, injana iba njengabazali bayo xa ikhulile.
Kubalulekile ukuba wazi ukuba njengomgaqo jikelele, ukuba ezona njana zintle zithengiswa kuqala, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ukhetho lomfuyi Kwaye apho injana ivela khona nayo ibaluleke kakhulu.
Injana eyonwabileyo neyonwabisayo
Injana iyadlala kwaye inamandla yiyo eya kuphuhlisa ezona ndlela zilungileyo zokufunda kwaye xa isiza ekubeni yinja yabantu abadala, ke ukuba injana ibonakala ilusizi kwaye ime, kungcono ungayikhethi.
Ngokwemvelo, izinja zizilwanyana zentlaloUkuba injana ibonakala ingenamdla kuwe okanye ukuba uyifumana ikhubazekile, kungenxa yokuba le njana inengxaki, kungcono ke ubone enye injana okanye omnye umfuyi.
Ukuba ufumana ifayile ye- injana enobuhlobo kwaye ubonakala onwabile ukunxibelelana nawe, yenza olu vavanyo, yiphathe ezandleni zakho.
Ukuba injana izama ukukuluma, ikhonkotha kakhulu, okanye isokola kakhulu, kungenxa yokuba ayikhululekanga kwaye ayidibani ngokwaneleyo, kungcono ukhethe enye injana kwinkunkuma kwaye kufuneka injana ihlale ezolile kwaye ekhululekile xa uyibambile.
Umfuyi kufuneka akuncede ekukhetheni kwakho
Umfuyi ngowona mntu ubalaseleyo onokukunceda khetha injana yakho. Ngoyena ubazi ngcono, kuba wababona bezalwa. Ikwayile nto ibancedayo ukuba bakhule baye kwiiveki ezisi-8 kwaye baqalise Amanqanaba okuqala entlalontle.
Ke ngoku uyazi, mbuze imibuzo malunga nenjana onomdla kakhulu kuyo,Indlela eziphatha ngayo emhlambini? Ngaba iyongamela okanye iyalawulwa? Zive ukhululekile ukubuza imibuzo emininzi kangangoko, umfuyi kufuneka athathe ixesha lokuyiphendula kwangoko, nokuba oku kuthetha ukuphindaphinda izinto ezifanayo amatyeli aliqela.
Isishwankathelo sokukhetha injana elungileyo in inkunkuma:
- Jonga ifayile impilo injana nabazali babo.
- Kuphephe ukukhetha injana eneentloni ngokugqithiseleyo.
- Lumka xa ukhetha, ngakumbi ukuba yinja yakho yokuqala, njengoko oku kuhlala kutyhila Inja ephezulu Ingayingxaki ukuba awumniki imfundo eqinileyo.
- Injana elungeleleneyo iya kubanjwa.