El olona suku lubalulekileyo ebomini bakho Kuya kufuneka uzingqonge ezakho, kwaye usapho alunakuphoswa yinja. Imitshato kunye nezinja iya isiba ngakumbi rhoqo, apho banendawo esebenzayo nebonakalayo, njengenxalenye yosapho oluzimase lo mbhiyozo. Nangona kunjalo, siyazi ukuba inja ayisoloko ithobela umthetho olandelwayo, ke kufuneka sazi ukuba nenja emtshatweni.
Los izinja emtshatweni zinokuba mnandi, kuba bayinxalenye yosapho lwethu kwaye sifuna inkumbulo ukuba ihlale apho bakhoyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto imitshato ingakumbi ibanjwa apho izinja zikhona. Kodwa siza kubona ezinye iingcebiso ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle ngala mini.
Inja izakudlala eyiphi indima
Ukuba siza kuthatha inja yethu siye emtshatweni, kungenxa yokuba sifuna ukuba ahlangane nathi, kodwa ayizizo zonke izinja ezilulungeleyo usuku olunzima kangaka kwaye nokuziphatha kakuhle kangangeeyure ezininzi ngaphandle kokwenza into ngokuzenzekelayo. Ngokuthatha inja siyazi ukuba baya kwenza izinto ezingaphandle kweskripthi, ekwayinto entle, kuba izinja, njengabantwana, ziyacombulula kwaye ziyindalo ngokupheleleyo, zithathe umsitho kude nobuzaza. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka sicinge malunga Inja eya kuba nayo emtshatweni. Oku kuyakuxhomekeka ekubeni sifunde kangakanani na kwaye kulula ukubaqeqesha.
Ukuba inja yethu iyisiphithiphithi okanye isenjana kwaye asizokwazi ukuyiqeqesha ngenxa yamandla amakhulu anayo, eyona nto intle kukuba indima emtshatweni yesibini. Oko kukuthi, singanomntu omkhathaleleyo aze asifote naye, simse emthendelekweni kodwa singabinanxaxheba kuwo kuba inokuba yintlekele. Kwelinye icala, inja yethu indala kwaye siyakholelwa ekubeni singayiqeqesha kakuhle, singasoloko simenza ukuba adibane nathi kumsitho, okanye asizisele imisesane ukuba siqinisekile ukuba uya thobela. Oku kufuneka kugqitywe kwangethuba, kuba kuya kufuneka sicwangcise ukuba umtshato kunye nomsitho uza kuba njani ukuze inja ibe nendawo kuyo, ukongeza ekuqeqesheni ukuziphatha kakuhle ngeli xesha.
Uqeqesho lwangaphambili
Eli linqanaba elibuthathaka, kuba kuya kufuneka siqeqeshe inja ukuba yenze le nto siyifunayo. Ukuba inja yethu ikrelekrele kwaye iyathobela ayizukuthatha thuba lide, kodwa ukuba ngokuchaseneyo ithanda ukuzimela kwaye ineendlela zayo zokuziphatha, inokusibiza ngaphezulu. Xa siliqeqesha, kufuneka sibhenele kulo uqeqesho oluqinisekileyo, simnike iitrinkethi zokwenza le nto siyifunayo. Xa usenza njalo, sikunika ibhaso. Kuya kufuneka uphindaphinde amaxesha amaninzi kangangoko ufuna de uphinde uphinde ngaphandle komvuzo.
Ukuba uza kuhlala kuphela ngexesha lomsitho, kufuneka sivavanye ngakumbi umonde wakhe, ukuze ahlale kwaye ahleli ngaphandle kokukhonkotha okanye ukoyika. Oku kuhlala kungcono emva kokuzilolonga ngokomzimba, njengoko inja iya kuba novalo kunye nokuzola. Ukuba siza kumsa kulo msitho kungafuneka ziqhelise ukuhamba ngamakhonkco, ukuba kunokwenzeka sibeke umqamelo phezu kwayo. Le yeenja kuphela eziqeqeshwe kakhulu kwaye zithobela.
Izilingo kunye nenja
Kulungile ukwenza ezinye ukuziqhelanisa nenja kwindawo leyo apho kuzokwenzelwa khona umsitho. Oku kuqinisekisa ukuba inja iyayazi imeko-bume kunye nevumba lendawo kwaye ayizukuphazamiseka ngalo mhla. Ngomhla womtshato kuya kubakho abantu abaninzi kunye nokuphazamiseka, kwaye oku kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo, kuba ayizizo zonke izinto ezinokuhamba njengoko silindele. Kubalulekile ukuphindaphinda nenja ukuba wenzeni emtshatweni kude kube kwenziwa ngokuzenzekelayo. Ngale ndlela, ngomhla womtshato, uya kuyikhumbula iodolo yakho kwaye kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukunqanda ukuphazamiseka endleleni.
Indawo yomtshato
Ngokucacileyo, ukuba siza kuthatha inja siye emtshatweni, umsitho awunakuba secaweni okanye kuya kufuneka ushiywe ngaphandle, kuba uninzi aluvumeli izilwanyana zasekhaya. Kungenxa yoko le nto ukuba sifuna ukuba inja yethu iye emtshatweni kufuneka ibekwenye indawo. Ngokwesiqhelo umtshato wezinja uhlala ungacwangciswanga, kwaye ke olona luvo lulungileyo kukwenza oku umsitho phesheya, ukuba imozulu intle. Kwindawo entle yendalo apho sonke siziva sikhululekile, inja ibandakanyiwe.
Usuku lomtshato
Ngomhla womtshato kubalulekile ukuba inja ikhululeke. Umyeni nomyeni baya kuba bexakekile ngamalungiselelo, ke kuya kuhlala kulunge ukushiya inja iye ku umntu omthembileyo ukuba amkhathalele usuku olungaphambi kwalolo suku. Lo mntu kuya kufuneka ahambe nenja phambi komsitho, ngakumbi ukuba inja isencinci okanye inovalo, kuba oku kuya kusebenzisa amandla kwaye kube nokuzola ngexesha lomtshato. Kuya kufuneka umthabathe aye kubona abanini bakhe, ukuze oluvalo lungonyuki. Izinja zinomdla kwaye ziya kuqaphela ukuba lusuku olukhethekileyo kwaye wonke umntu unovalo kunesiqhelo, ke nabo banokucaphuka. Kubalulekile ukuba loo mntu azole kwaye ayazi ukuba angazola njani ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukongeza, ngexesha lomtshato kufuneka sihlale sinamanzi enja kunye nendawo apho kunokuzola kwaye sihlale khona. Umntu ophetheyo kufuneka amthabathe uhambo rhoqo ukuzikhulula kwindawo ekude nomsitho.
Shiya igumbi lokuhlaziya
Ngezinja kufuneka sihlale sikhona shiya igumbi lokuhlaziya. Ayizizo zonke iifoto kunye nabo ezinokuthi zigqibelele kwaye zinokuwuphazamisa umsitho, kodwa inyani kukuba xa sinenja siyazi ukuba le yinxalenye ebenza babaluleke ngakumbi. Obo buchule bokuzenzekela kwaye wonke umntu uyakufumanisa kuhlekisa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, imalunga nokonwabela usuku olukhethekileyo ngesilwanyana esikhethekileyo, abahlobo kunye nosapho.