Ihlobo liza kunye neeholide ekudala zilindelwe kunye inkxalabo esiya kuyenza nenja yethu. Abanye bethu sele besazi ukuba bangabelana njani ngeli xesha lonyaka kunye noogxa bethu esibathandayo kodwa abanye abakwazanga ukuzilungiselela okanye batsha kule misebenzi.
Yintoni esinokuyenza nenja yethu ehlotyeni?
Uphando olwenziwe kumxholo lubonisa ukuba ipesenti elungileyo yabanini bezilwanyana kufuneka ishiywe yodwa phakathi evekini egubungela indawo enkulu yonyaka, ke kwaba bantu banzima kunzima ukucinga ukubashiya bodwa ehlotyeni ngelixa bonwabela iintsuku zabo zokuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa, kodwa bayazi ukuba ukubathatha baye nabo eholideyini. Nciphisa imisebenzi yakho yolonwabo Nokuba kukho ukhetho kwiihotele kunye namakhaya ononophelo kubo, kunzima kubo ukuba bathathe isigqibo ngenye yezi.
Namhlanje siza kukunika iingcebiso ezinokusebenza kakuhle ukuba into oyifunayo kukuthatha isilwanyana sakho ngeholide yasehlotyeni kunye nabanye xa kungenakwenzeka ukuba usithathe.
Landela ezi ngcebiso zilula
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele okona kulungileyo kwisilwanyana sakho kwaye yintoni ubuntu bakho, ukuba unokuziqhelanisa ngokulula nomnye ummandla ongaqhelekanga, ukuba unovakalelo kwizithambo zomlilo okanye enye ingxolo enkulu, kwizandi ezibangelwa ziinkqwithela rhoqo ehlotyeni ngendlela, kunye nezinye izinto.
Ukuba kwindawo ochitha kuyo ehlotyeni kukho amaqela anje ngomthendeleko waseSan Juan apho kuboniswa khona izinto ezenziwa ngomlilo kwaye isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya yenye yezo zichaphazeleka kwezi ngxolo, dibana nodokotela wezilwanyana ukuba kunokwenzeka na ukufaka iyeza lokuthomalalisa kancinci okanye ukuba kufanelekile ukuba umtyhilele kuloo meko. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba kukho iintlobo ezihlala zisoyika kwaye zixhalabile ebusweni bengxolo ezinje ngezi, ukuba uyazazi uya kuba sele uyazi inxenye yeempendulo zemibuzo yakho ngalo mbandela kwangethuba.
Ukuba sisilwanyana sasekhaya sonke, yiya phambili ke, uhambe nayo, kuba iqinisekile ukuba iya kuba nexesha elimnandi.
Ukuba yinja okanye ikati, jonga ixesha lobushushu kwaye uthathe amanyathelo afanelekileyo kweli tyala, soloko unxibelelana nogqirha wezilwanyana, ngokufanayo, ukutya kwesilwanyana sakho kufanele ukuba kufane ehlotyeni, akukho sizathu sokukutshintsha, endaweni yoko, kufuneka uqinisekise isondlo esifanelekileyo ngelixa ekude nawe.
Ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo awunakuhamba nayo, kukho ezinye iindlela zokushiya isilwanyana sakho ngelixa ukonwabela iholide yakho yehlobo. Kukho ezinye iiwebhusayithi ezinikezela ngenkonzo ebizwa ngokuba ngumntwana, nto leyo ingeyiyo iqela elikhulu labanonopheli abakunika ithuba lokuba usondele kakhulu kwaye bakulungele ngokupheleleyo ukukhathalela isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya; Le nkonzo ibandakanya i-inshurensi yamatyala asimahla kunye nongxamiseko lwezilwanyana.
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, olu lukhetho oluncomekayo
Ngayiphi na imeko, ukucwangciswa kubalulekile, kuba ukuba kungokufumana indawo ethembekileyo okanye ekhuthazwayo kwisilwanyana sakho, kuya kufuneka uyenze kwangaphambili, ukuze ukhethe ukhetho olucinga ngcono kwaye ukuba uthatha indawo nawe, ke kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo izinto ezinje ngemozulu, ingxolo enkulu, ukuba bayazamkela izilwanyana oza kuhlala kuzo, iindleko ezongezelelekileyo ezibandakanya oku, indawo onayo yokuphatha izinto zabo, njl.
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