Izinja ezihlala nabantu abangakwazanga ukubafundisa kakuhle zihlala ziphela zineengxaki ezininzi zokuhlalisana. Kodwa ayisiyiyo kuphela abo baphethwe gadalala abanokukhula bengazi ukuba banxibelelana njani nabanye bohlobo lwabo okanye nabanye abantu, kodwa nabo bakhuselwe kakhulu. Nokuba kunjalo kuyakunyanzeleka kakhulu ukuba usebenze ngobushushu ukuze ubuye uzithembe kwaye, ngenxa yoko, unokuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo ekuhlaleni.
Ke ukuba uyazibuza ukuba wenzeni ukuba inja yam yoyika abantuKweli nqaku siza kuthetha ngezizathu kunye nezisombululo ezinokubakho.
Kutheni inja yam yoyika abantu?
Inja inokuziva inoloyiko lokwenene ebantwini xa iphethwe kakubi, okanye xa kungabikho budlelwane kubo. Kwimeko yokuqala, unxulumana nabantu nento engalunganga (ukuphathwa gadalala ngokwasemzimbeni kunye / okanye ngamazwi, oko kukuthi, ukukhala rhoqo); kweyesibini, engakhange anxibelelane nabo, akazi ukuba angabalisa njani, ngoko uziva engakhuselekanga phambi kwabo.
Olu loyiko lunokuvela kwakamsinya, sele luvela kwiinjana, kwaye luloyiko oluhlala luthatha ixesha elide ukunyamalala, ke ukuba unenja eyoyikisayo, Kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba uqalise ukusebenza nayo ngokukhawuleza.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukunqanda inja yam ukuba yoyike abantu?
Into yokuqala nephambili yile uyihloniphe kwaye uyikhathalele. Akufuneki simbethe, simngxolise, okanye simphathe kakubi nangayiphi na indlela. Kwaye awunyanzelekanga ukuba umnyanzele, kuba kungenjalo uloyiko lwakhe luya kukhula. Ukufumana inja eyoyikayo ukuba ikhokele ubomi obuqhelekileyo, kubalulekile ukuba abantu bakuphathe kakuhle, ukumnika ukuphatha izinja.
Nanini na xa uneendwendwe, bacele ukuba banike ubushushu bakho. Kwaye ukuba uhambahamba, Mnike ixesha ngalinye xa ubona umntu esiza evela kumgaqo wakho.
Ukuba ixesha liyadlula kwaye awuboni kuphucuka, ungathandabuzi ukunxibelelana nomqeqeshi wezinja osebenza ngokuqinisekileyo.