Ukunikela ubungqina ekulweni nenja ngamava ayimnandanga kakhulu, ngakumbi ukuba enye yezi zinto zimbini yeyakho, kuba ayinakuphepheka ukuzibuza ukuba yintoni le uyenzileyo ingalunganga, okanye ukuba ngandlela thile ibinokuphetshwa.
Ukuqala apho ndiza kukuxelela wenzeni ukuba izinja ezimbini ziyalwa, ukwenzela ukuba xa ubona omnye uyazi indlela yokwenza into.
Landela eli nyathelo ngenyathelo:
- Yiba nefayile ye- ingqondo epholileyo nezolileyo. Nokuba ziphi na izinja, kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina ingqondo epholileyo, kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke ukuzola. Okukhona usoyika, kokukhona izilwanyana ziya kuziphatha kakubi, kwaye imiphumo iba mibi kulowo unamandla amancinci.
- Ngoku uye kubo ngokukhawuleza kwaye thatha umsila wenye. Cela umntu ukuba enze okufanayo nomnye. Ingabonakala ikhohlakele, kodwa kuya kufuneka ucinge ukuba ngalo mzuzu izilwanyana zixinene kwaye zijonge kuphela »elichasayo». Ukuba nabani na ukhetha ukuma phakathi kwaba babini, baya kuluma.
- Nje ukuba izinja ezimbini zithintelwe, zama ukwahlula. Ngaphandle kokwenza iintshukumo ngequbuliso, kodwa ngokuqinileyo. Thatha amanyathelo amancinci ubuye umva kude kube kude ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungazibopha.
- Nje ukuba babe nazo, ziqhelanise ngakumbi nenye inja. Yiya kwindawo apho ingabonakali khona, engakhange athethe nelilodwa ilizwi kubo.
- Emva beka ukuphatha inja phantsi ke banokwenza isniff encinci. Ngale ndlela baya kuba nakho ukuzola.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba enye yezinja yeyakho kwaye / okanye ungaziboni ukwazi ukwenza nantoni na cela uncedo. Nabani na.
Ukongeza kokungathethi nabo, akufuneki ubabethe okanye ubaphose emhlabeni ukubonisa ukuba "somelele" okanye "sithi abaphetheyo." Ngokulula abayi kuqonda, kwaye sinokubenza boyike kuphela. Kungcono ukukhupha inja kuloo meko, simse kwindawo ethe cwaka, kwaye myeke asebenze impumlo okwexeshana ukuyithoba.
Ukuba wenzakele, ungathandabuzi ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana. Kwaye ke ukuhamba kakuhle ekhaya. 🙂