Lo ngumcimbi onobuzaza kakhulu, kwaye esingafuni ukujongana nawo ngesiqhelo. Ukuba ungumnini wenja endala, mhlawumbi ukhe wacinga ngento ekufuneka uyenzile xa umzuzu wokufa kwakhe. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, akunakwenzeka ukulungiselela loo mzuzu, kuba uza ngesiquphe.
Jongana ne ukufa ngesiquphe isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya, yinto enzima kuye nabani na. Ngomzuzu wentlungu, ngekhe ucinge ngento oza kuyenza, ke kungcono ube unayo umbono ngamanyathelo Kuya kufuneka unike nje ukuba kungenzeki okungenzeki.
Xa inja yethu igula, okanye indala kakhulu, sele sinethemba lokuba izakuhamba kungekudala. Nangona kunjalo, kumaxesha amaninzi, bahamba ngokukhawuleza kunokuba besilindele. Nokuba izinja ezincinci maxa wambi ziyafa ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Lungela ngalo mzuzu ubalulekile, kuba xa kusenzeka akukho lula ukucinga ngeenkcukacha ezisemthethweni nezisebenzayo.
Into yokuqala yokucinga kukuba ukuba inja yakho isweleke nje ekhaya, kuya kufuneka ujongane nayo. Ukuba awukwazi kuwuthatha umzimba, ungacela umntu ukuba awuthathe umhlobo ukukunceda, okanye umntu ongekho kufutshane kakhulu nesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya. Ukuba kukho abantwana, kunqande ukuba bangayiboni, ukuze bahlale beyikhumbula kwiifoto, benomfanekiso olungileyo.
Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba okwangoku akuvumelekanga ukungcwaba isilwanyana, nokuba kungasadini yakho. Xa esweleka kuya kufuneka ubize ugqirha wezilwanyana, apho uya kumshiya khona, kuba zihlala zinengqokelela yezilwanyana ezifileyo. Ukuba unqwenela, banako ndikubuyisele uthuthu wenja yakho, ukuze uyinike umngcwabo ofanelekileyo. Yindlela yosapho lonke ukuvalelisa kwisilwanyana ngesidima esisifaneleyo.
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