Uthando luyinto entle, kodwa xa lusonga izinja zethu zihlala zikhuthaza ezinye 'iingxaki ' ngakumbi ukuba inja yakho ibhinqa.
Kwabo bangazange babenenja eshushu ekhaya, siyazi ukuba eli lixesha lokuba kungadla ubusuku bokulala ezimbalwa, kodwa ingxaki ayisiyiyo le kuphela kwaye kukuba ngokubhekisele kubanini bezinja ezingamadoda, 'ingxaki' ishwankathelwe ekulawuleni Ukuziphatha okunexhala, ukungxola, ukungabinamdla wokutya, kunye nokumakisha umhlaba, ukongeza ukuvuza okunokwenzeka emva kwenja kubushushu.
Buyintoni ubushushu kwaye iya kuhlala ixesha elingakanani inja yam?
Ngubani onenja efudumeleyo ekhaya, kuya kufuneka azi ukuba kuya kufuneka ajongane ne ukulahleka kwegazi kunye nomngcipheko wokwenene wokukhulelwa ukuba ityala liphuma esandleni. Ingxaki kunjalo ikhona kuphela ukuba unenja engafakwanga neutered.
Ukuthelekisa nomntu ongumfazi, kufuneka sitsho ilingana nomjikelo wokuya exesheni oko kuqala ebusheni kwaye kwenza ukuba owesifazana akwazi ukukhulelwa kwaye akhulelwe, umahluko wokuba inja yabasetyhini, ukufikisa kuza ngaphambili kakhulu (sithetha ngeenyanga endaweni yeminyaka) kwaye akukho mda wobudala Ukugqiba, kuba amaqhekeza sukuya exesheni.
Ukufika kobushushu bokuqala iyahluka kancinci ukusuka kwelinye inja ukuya kwelinye, Kuxhomekeka kubungakanani be-bitch, kunye nemeko yezempilo kunye nesondlo.
Ukufikisa kuphawuleka ngokuchanekileyo kwimitshini ngokuqala kobushushu ekufuneka kwenzeke phakathi Iinyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-7 zezinja ezincinci kunye neenyanga ezili-15-18 kwizinja ezinkulu, kodwa kunye nexesha kunye nenani lamaxesha ngonyaka zinokwahluka ngokobungakanani, ngomndilili ophindwe kabini ngonyaka ixesha leentsuku ezingama-21.
Ndiyazi njani ukuba inja ingene kubushushu?
Uyakuqaphela ukudumba kwesisu, esincinci ukopha kumalungu esini kunye notyekelo lokukhotha loo ndawo ngalo lonke ixesha. Kwinqanaba lokuziphatha kukho ukuphazamiseka kunye nokunyuka komnqweno wokuchama.
Ukuba awufuni ukuba inja yakho ibe yimagnethi yamadoda angabamelwane, kuya kufuneka Mgcine ekhaya ixesha lokushisa le.
Ukuba kunyanzelekile ukuba uhambe esitalatweni, kufuneka ulumke kakhulu ukuze ugcine ukhuselekile, phantsi kolawulo kwaye ukude ezinjeni ezingamadoda. Umxholo awuhambi ngeli xesha Okanye uyenze kwinkampani yabantu abaninzi ukuze uyikhusele kwizinja ezingamadoda eziwela indlela yakho kwaye ngaphezulu kweengcebiso esiza kukunika zona, kukuba ube nomonde kwaye iihormoni zinokubangela uxinzelelo kunye novalo okanye uba novalo kakhulu ngexesha lobushushu, ke wena kunye nosapho lwakho aninakho ukuziphatha ngokwahlukileyo, oko kukuthi, ziphathe njengesiqhelo.
Ewe, yomelela ekuphindaphindeni imithetho emiselweyo, kodwa ungagqithisi ngokumohlwaya nokohlwaya ngokuqatha.
Ungayithintela njani inja yam ekukhulelweni?
Iibhitches kubushushu ukutsala amadoda ngevumba, ke akulunganga ukushiya indlu ngeli xesha, kodwa indlela yokuzola kwaye ungabinazo ezi ngxaki kukuyicoca.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba emva kwamava okuqala, isimilo senja yakho kunzima kakhulu ukuyilawula ngaphandle kokonakalisa inkululeko yakho okanye inkqubo yakho, ungasoloko ucinga ngotyando, Oko kukuthi, ukubulala iintsholongwane.
Iibatch zingafakwanga ubushushu ngaphambi kobushushu bokuqala bathambekele ekubeni nobomi obude Kwaye baqhuba umngcipheko omncinci wezempilo, ukongeza ekunciphiseni kakhulu umngcipheko wezifo kwindawo yesibeleko kwaye ikakhulu, umhlaza wamabele kunye wesibeleko.