El ukukhulelwa kwengqondo kwimingxunya yinto engakhange ichithwe iyasokola, kuba iyinto eyenzeka emva kobushushu. Kuyingxaki kubo, ke esi sesinye isizathu sokuba kube licebo elilungileyo ukuba bangabulala iintsholongwane, kuba sikwagcina usulelo lwesibeleko, ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo kunye nezinye iingxaki.
Kodwa ukuba sithetha ngokukhulelwa kwengqondo, yinto enokwenzeka njenge Ilifa lokusinda kwimingxunya. Ukuba enye inja iyafa, bayakwazi ukuncancisa inzala yabo, ke baya kuhlala benobisi, yiyo loo nto emva kobushushu, oko bakubiza ngokuba kukukhulelwa kwengqondo kunokwenzeka.
Ezinye zeempawu ezibonakalayo esinokuzibona kuzo zezi ukudumba kwesisu kunye nokudumba. Amabele ayadumba kwaye ubisi luvela kwizihlandlo ezininzi, kwaye banokuba nokukhutshelwa kwilungu lobufazi. Ukuba siphawula naluphi na olu tshintsho, kufuneka simse kugqirha wezilwanyana. Oku kukungalingani kwehomoni okuya kuthi kuyichaphazele nasengqondweni, ke siyayibona inja ingakhathali, kwaye inomsindo ngakumbi okanye iyacaphukisa.
Ngamanye amaxesha ezi zinto zincinci yenza indlwane apho bacinga ukuba baya kukhululeka ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ukuba bangaphandle banokumba kakhulu, kwaye ngaphakathi endlwini banokuqokelela izinto kwindawo yokulala apho. Olu lutshintsho oluninzi kakhulu ukuba ungazithathi ingqalelo ukuba zenzeka kwinja yethu.
Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, sijamelene notshintsho olunjalo, kufuneka ndimse kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuqikelela ukuba masenze ntoni na. Kwaye ukuba sifuna ukukhusela oku kungenzeki, eyona ilungileyo kukusoloko kuthintela. Kungenxa yoko le nto kucetyiswa inzalo kwi-bitches, ebanika umgangatho wobomi obuphezulu kakhulu kwaye kuthintela uninzi lwezi zifo kunye notshintsho.