Baninzi abantu abane inja njengesilwanyana sasekhaya Kwaye bayathanda ukubabonisa uthando oluninzi, kodwa singathetha ngemeko yabanye abangahlali nabo kodwa abathi ngokufanayo banethuba lokonwabela ukubonisa lonke uthando lwabo kubo.
Enye yeendlela abantu abazisebenzisa rhoqo ukuze bakwazi ukubonisa inja yabo uthando abanalo ngaye, kukumanga kwaye emva koko abanini bayeke inja yabo ukuba iyikhothe. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ikwakhona imeko yabo bantu bayithathela ingqalelo loo nto izinja ezincamisayo azicocekanga kwaye kwangaxeshanye ayinampilo. Kwaye kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba namhlanje sizise inqaku lokuphendula umbuzo wokuba ngaba izinja ezincamisayo zimbi?
Omnye umbuzo ohlala uvela ngowokuba izinja zinamandla okuziva nokuqonda ukwanga yabantu, kodwa ayiqhelekanga yenzeke ngalo lonke ixesha, oku kuthetha ukuba yonke into ixhomekeke enjeni.
Inja inokubanakho ukuqonda ukuqonda ukwanga kwabantu njenge ukubonisa uthando okanye abanokuyiqonda intsingiselo yayo, bazive bengonwabanga okanye ngamanye amaxesha, banokuziva boyikisiwe.
Isizathu sokuba ungayiqonda ngendlela eyahlukileyo kungenxa yokuba yenzeka ngendlela efanayo naleyo yabantu. Xa inja ikwisigaba sayo senjana kwaye ngendlela efanayo isekwinto eyiyo Ixesha lentlalontleSihlala simfundisa ukukhotha nokufumana ukwanga kwethu njengophawu lothando, ke uya kuyithatha njengento elungileyo.
Kodwa ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, ubungenakho ukuyifunda, kunokwenzeka ukuba awukwazi ukuyiqonda kwaye awuziva mnandi ngayo. Ngaphandle koko, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba Inja nganye inomlinganiswa owahluke mpela kwaye kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba abanye bayithande, njengabanye abangayithandiyo.
Ngoku sibuyela kumbuzo wokuqala, ngaba izinja ezincamisayo zimbi? Ukuba sibhekisa kwimeko yokuba inefuthe kulwalamano esinalo nenja yethu, singatsho njalo kuya kuxhomekeka kuye nakwindlela yakhe yokunxibelelana, njengoko besesitshilo.
Kwelinye icala nakwimeko yezempilo, sinokuthi inyani yeyokuba xa iyinja engenakho ukulawula kakuhle izitofu zayo, okanye ilawule ukukhupha iintshulube, nokuba kungaphakathi okanye ngaphandle, kukho ithuba lokuba sikwazi ukwenza isivumelwano nezinye i-zoonoses, njengokuba kunjalo nangee-parasites ezihlasela amathumbu, amakhalane okanye ukhwekhwe. Kungenxa yesi sizathu, ukuba asinalo ulwazi ngenja okanye asazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba injani impilo yayo, eyona nto ilungileyo kukuba ukuba sifuna ukuyinika naluphi na uthando siyayanga Inja mayingasikhothi, nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka sihlambe izandla zethu phambi kokuba sibabambe ebusweni.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba inja isempilweni ngokupheleleyo kwaye kukho ugonyo ngalunye kunye nokususa iintshulube ngosuku, sinokuyiphuza ngokuzolileyo. Ngapha koko, ayisiyonto intle ukwanga inja kule meko, kodwa kuyinzuzo enkulu kwimpilo yethu, kuba ngale ndlela sinokomeleza iindlela zethu zokuzikhusela.
Ngale ndlela sinokuthi ukwanga izinja kunokuba luncedo olukhulu ukuze sikwazi ukuphucula iintyatyambo zethu zamathumbu. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko besesitshilo, konke oku kuxhomekeke kwimpilo nakwimeko apho inja ikhoyo.