Khangela kwaye ulande ibhola Idla ngokuba ngumdlalo othandwa kakhulu zizinja ezininzi, nanjengoko zikonwabela ukubaleka emva kwawo "ukuzingela", zicela ukuba siziphose ziphindaphindwe. Le ayifanelanga ukuba yingxaki ukuba nje ayisiyiyo into ethanda ukuba yinto, enokuthi yenzeke ngokulula ukuba isilwanyana asifumani ngqwalaselo iyimfuneko okanye sizilolonge ngokwaneleyo. Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba sinokuwuphelisa lo mkhwa ngokulandela imigaqo ethile.
Okokuqala kufuneka siqonde ukuba lo mdlalo awukho kwindalo yawo. Ookhokho bezinja, iingcuka zasendle, bahamba imigama emide kwaye bazingela ukutya, oko akuthethi ukufikelela ku imeko yoxinzelelo phezulu njengokukhangela ibhola. Nathi ngokwethu sikhuthaza olu lonwabo ngalo msebenzi, esingenakukwazi ukuwulawula kumaxesha amaninzi.
Impazamo exhaphakileyo kukufaka endaweni yokukhwela komdlalo we ibhola. Abanini abaninzi bakhetha ukukhetha enye indlela yokufumana intuthuzelo, ngenjongo yokuba inja idinwe ngokukhawuleza kwaye ibashiye bodwa. Ngale ndlela, akukho nto siyenzayo ngaphandle kokukhuthaza ukuthanda kwabo izinto, kuba umdlalo iba kuphela kwento eyenziwa ngumzimba eyenziwa sisilwanyana. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba uchithe amandla akho kunye uhambo olude.
Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukuba sibe ngabo masilawule umdlaloOko kukuthi, ukuba sigade imeko yenja. Kubalulekile ukuba sithathe isigqibo sokuba umsebenzi uqala nini kwaye uphela nini, kunye nexesha lokuphosa ibhola; ukuba inja iyayikhonkotha ngokukhonkotha, kuya kufuneka siyilinde ukuze izole.
Icebo elilungileyo lokuthatha ithuba lomsebenzi oza kuwenza intobelo usebenzisa ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo. Phambi kokuphosa ibhola singacela isilwanyana sethu ukuba sihlale okanye silale phantsi, "simnyanzela" ukuba azole phambi kokuba abaleke ayokufuna into yakhe yokudlala. Qiniseka ukuba ujonge kuthi, endaweni yebhola, ngaphambi kokuba ayiphose.
Malunga nexesha lomdlalo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ingagqithi kwimizuzu eli-10 okanye eli-15, kwaye sizithathele isigqibo xa iphela. Nje ukuba ugqibile, eyona nto ilungileyo yile gcina ibhola apho isilwanyana singenakufumana khona, ukuze unqamle ngokupheleleyo kulo msebenzi. Ngexesha kunye nomonde siya kuba nakho ukuphelisa ukuthanda kwakho izinto.