Njengomdla kwaye uhlekisayo njengoko kunokubonakala ngathi inja yakho itya yonke into esemendweni wayo, kubandakanya amatye, inokuba yingozi kakhulu kwimpilo yakho Kwaye ke ngumkhwa ombi ukuba uhlasele kwangoko, kuba kwesi senzo sobudlakudla utyhileka ekungeniseni izinto eziyingozi, inkunkuma, ilindle, njl.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba kutheni inja yakho itya amatye?
Ngokwesiqhelo kwenzeka ngamanye amaxesha ukuba ezinye izinja ziphuhlise incasa ethile yokutya amatye, enyanisweni, usenokuba ukhe wayibona kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uye wazibuza umbuzo wawuthathaphi lo mkhwa, ungayitya njani into enzima kwaye ingenancasa, ukusukela xa uyenzile kunye neminye imibuzo. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu kukucinga ukuba yeyiphi na eminye imizimba yamanye amazwe eye yaginywa kwaye ichaphazela njani impilo yenja.
Ewe, siya kuzama ukususa yonke le mibuzo, Nceda ukwazi ukuba inja yakho itye amatye na okanye naliphi na elinye ilizwe langaphandle kwaye uyaziqonda ezi zinto emzimbeni wayo, kunye nokuqonda ukuba kutheni ewathanda kangaka amatye.
Besitshilo ekuqaleni ukuba ukutya amatye kunesiphumo esibi kwimpilo yesilwanyana sakho, enyanisweni, njengoko idlula kwindlela yokugaya, inokubangela ukurhawuzelela kunye nokudumba kwinwebu yamathumbu, ethi ekuhambeni kwexesha ivelise ingxaki yesisu kwisilwanyana.
Kodwa zininzi iziphumo ezibi kakhulu njengakwimeko apho inja inengxaki yokugungxulwa kwamathumbu, isiphumo soko kwangoko ubukho ukopha ngaphakathi ukuba ukuba ayinyamekelwanga kwangexesha kungakhokelela ekufeni kwakhe.
Izizathu zokuba inja itye amatye
Izizathu zokuba inja itye amatye akukho lula ukuyichaza, kuba le ndlela yokuziphatha inokubangelwa zizizathu ezahlukeneyo. Okona kucetyiswayo ngomonde jonga inja malunga nokondla kwayo, imeko yakhe yangoku yempilo, yesiqhelo kunye nokuziphatha kwemihla ngemihla kunye nayo nayiphi na into ekunceda ukuba uchonge ngokuthe ngqo ukuba yintoni emkhuthaza ukuba atye amatye nezinye izinto zangaphandle.
Ngayiphi na imeko xa ukrokrela ukuba utye amatye nezinye izinto ezingadliyo okanye okhe wambona esenza, yiya kwangoko kugqirha wezilwanyana ngenxa yobungozi obuninzi obubonisa oku. Okwangoku, siza kukubonisa ezinye zezizathu zokuba izinja zitye amatye, ezintlanu zichanekile, nangona sisebenza zininzi kakhulu:
Isifo sePica
Ubukho beli syndrome ezinjeni kwenza ukuba isilwanyana sifune ukutya zonke iintlobo zokutya, izinto, amatye kunye nayo nayiphi na into engakulungelanga ukusetyenziswa.
Kwinqanaba leenjana
Ukusukela kancinci Kuya kufuneka uphonononge yonke into esemendweni wakho, ngoko kuqhelekile ukuba zihlafune okanye ziginye izinto, izinto ezingatyiyo, kwanamatye. Ewe kunjalo, le ndlela yokuziphatha kufuneka ilungisiwe, kodwa uhlala unonophele ukuba ungalisusi ngenkani okanye ngesiquphe ilitye emlonyeni, kuba impendulo inokuba kukuginya ngokukhawuleza.
Ixhala noxinzelelo
Ukuxinezeleka ezinjeni inokwenza ukubonakala kwayo xa ingazilolanga ngokwaneleyo, ivaliwe ngalo lonke ixesha, ayifumani naluphi na uhlobo lokuvuselelwa kwengqondo, ifumana ukungxoliswa, ukohlwaywa okanye ukuphathwa gadalala. Impendulo kule nto inokuba ilungile hlafuna izinto uziginye, phakathi kwabo ngamatye.
Ukubiza umnxeba
Ukuba inja yakho ichitha ixesha elininzi iyodwa, ngaphandle kwengqwalaselo okanye inkuthazo, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuqala ukutya amatye kunye nezinye izinto ezingadliyo, idityaniswe nezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ezibenza babe liziko lokuqwalaselwa kweenkosi zabo Nokuba oko kuthetha ukohlwaywa, kuba kwabo kulunge ngakumbi kunokungakhathaleli. Oku kuziphatha kuhlala kuvela kwiimeko ezigwenxa.
Xa banee-parasites
Uninzi lwezinja luhlafuna amayeza kunye nezityalo Ukuphelisa ngokwendalo izifunxi-gazi ezicaphukisayo, nangona ke xa oovimba bengekho bangahlafuna amatye. Kubalulekile ukuba uphume uye kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuba le yingxaki kuba kuyakwanela ukuba anike inyambalala.
Unokwenza ntoni ukuba inja yakho iginye ilitye?
Xa singakwazanga ukuthintela ilitye okanye nayiphi na into engenakudliwa ukuba ingaginywa, kufuneka umse ngokukhawuleza kugqirha wezilwanyana Kuba ngokuqinisekileyo zikho iindlela ezifanelekileyo ekhaya zokukhuthaza inja yakho ukuba iyigxothe, kodwa ukuba azisetyenziswa kakuhle, unyusa umngcipheko wesilwanyana sakho.
Ukongeza, ngaphandle koncedo lobuchwephesha Kunzima kakhulu ukufumanisa eyona ndawo ililitye kwaye ngokusekwe koku sebenzisa indlela efanelekileyo yokugxothwa nokuba kungenxa yesangqa okanye ngomlomo. Ubungakanani belitye kunye nomonakalo onokubangela kwithumbu lesisu kufuneka nawo uthathelwe ingqalelo.
Ukwazi ezona ndlela zinokuthenjwa xa inja yakho ikhupha ilitye, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ubonane nogqirha wezilwanyana, othi ngezifundo ezihambelanayo kunye novavanyo lomzimba, akwazi ukufumana apho ikhoyo kwaye yeyiphi indlela eya kuba yefanelekileyo ukunqanda omnye umonakalo emzimbeni wenja.
Ungayithintela njani inja yakho ekutyeni amatye?
Sele kucacile ngokwaneleyo ukuba ukungenisa amatye kuyingozi kakhulu, ngoku siza kubona indlela yokuphepha le ndlela yokuziphatha kwisilwanyana sasekhaya, kuba ngaphezulu kwako konke kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo xa sinika inja yethu inja ukutya okugqibeleleyo, okusempilweni kunye nokulinganayo, ngokwenqanaba lobomi bakho okulo.
Inja kufuneka ibe nohlobo oluthile lomsebenzi owenziwayo rhoqo kwaye ihlala ihlengahlengiswa kwimfuno kunye nobudala bayo, oku kuthintela uxinzelelo. Nika isilwanyana sakho izinto zokudlala size sizilungele, Akukho zinto zangaphandle okanye amatye, kuba uya kuba ukhuthaza umkhwa ombi.
Khuthaza ingqondo yakho, dlala imidlalo ngakumbi kule kunye neminye imisebenzi eyenza ukuba ubukrelekrele bakho. Ndwendwela ugqirha wezilwanyana rhoqo kwaye unikeze iivithamini, amayeza, kunye neentshulube xa kufanelekile.