Njengoxanduva lwempilo yabahlobo bethu, amaxesha ngamaxesha asizukukhetha ngaphandle kokumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana. Kodwa ke, akukho mntu uthanda ukuya apho, nangona ngamanye amaxesha kuyanyanzeleka, Kubalulekile ukuba inja iyazi ukuba akukho nto imbi iya kwenzeka kuye ngalo lonke ixesha ishiya. Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka silindele kwaye siqhelane nokuphathwa ukusuka kusuku lokuqala ufika ekhaya. Oku kuyakwenza lula kakhulu ukuba wamkele olo tyelelo kugqirha wezilwanyana.
Masibone ungakuphepha njani ukoyika ugqirha wezilwanyana ezinjeni.
Mnike umyalezo
Ugqirha wezilwanyana uya kubamba umlenze wakhe ukuze amtofa, uza kuvula umlomo wakhe abone ukuba anjani amazinyo,… ngokufutshane, uya kumsebenzisa ukuze abone ukuba usempilweni njani. Ukuze ingaphindi ibuye, ekhaya into ekufuneka uyenzile yile mnike umthambiso umzimba uphela, ukuze inja iqhele ukuyiqhela.
Thatha uhambe naye kwaye udlale naye
Ngaphambi kokuba uye ekliniki, kucetyiswa kakhulu mthathe uhambo olude kwaye udlale naye ukuze uzolile, ngakumbi ukuba unovalo okanye awuphumli. Oku kuyakwenza kube lula ukuyilawula wakuba ulapho.
Zola
Ukuba unovalo / inja yakho nayo iya kuba njalo, kubaluleke kakhulu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba Thatha umphefumlo onzulu ngaphambi kokungena, kwaye ucinga ukuba yonke into izakulunga. Zama ukugcina ingqondo yakho izolile, kwaye uza kubona ukuba yonke into iza kuba bhetele njani kunokuba ucinga 😉.
Yiza nokuphatha inja yakho
Ukuba uza kugonywa okanye uhlolwe rhoqo, ndincoma ukuba uze Izinto ezilungileyo ngenxa yenja yakho. Mnike iperi xa usemotweni, ezinye ezimbini xa uyokungena, kwaye kwakhona omnye u-2 okanye u-3 xa ugqirha egqibile, ukuvuyisana nesilwanyana ngokuziphatha okuhle ebesinako.
Ke ndiqinisekile ukuba awuyi koyika ingcali 🙂.