Uyamqaphela umhlobo wakho ezantsi? Ngaba awunaluhlu kwaye ubonakala ungakulungelanga ukwenza nantoni na? Ukuba kunjalo, unokuba noxinzelelo. Kodwa ngethamsanqa, zininzi izinto ezinokwenziwa ukuzama ukumvuyisa.
Sazise ungaluphatha njani uxinzelelo ezinjeni.
Kutheni inja yam idandathekile?
Izinja zinokudandatheka ukuba zichitha ixesha elininzi zodwa, ukuba azenzi mithambo, ukuba ziyagula, okanye zisandula ukuswelekelwa ngumntu omthandayo. Unyango ekufuneka lulandelwe luya kuxhomekeka kwisizathu. Ngale nto engqondweni, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukwenza utshintsho, kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba uye kugqirha wezilwanyana Ukusixelela ngqo ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuwe, kwaye wazi ukuba uziva iintlungu okanye ukungonwabi okuthintela ukuba uphile ubomi obuqhelekileyo.
Zithini iimpawu zoxinzelelo ezinjeni?
Iimpawu ziyafana kakhulu nezo sinazo xa sihlangabezana nexesha elibi: ukungakhathali, ukuphelelwa ngumdla wokutya, umoya ophantsi, umdla omncinci okanye ukungabinamdla kwimidlalo kunye / okanye ukuhamba, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha banokukhala.
Uyinyamekela njani inja enoxinzelelo?
Logama nje ingenazo naziphi na izigulo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza utshintsho kwindlela yesiqhelo isilwanyana.
- Into yokuqala neyona ibalulekileyo ukuyenza chitha ixesha kunye nenja, ukunqanda ukushiywa wedwa. Oku kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka udlale naye, kufuneka umnike uthando, kwaye kufuneka umgcine enxulumana naye.
- Kufuneka kuthathwe ukuhamba, yonke imihla, kwaye ihlala ikhululekile ngentambo, ngaphandle koxinzelelo. Ukuba awufuni, siya kukukhuthaza ukuba uhambe ngokunikela ngokuphathwa kwezinja. Kuya kufuneka aphume aye kubona umhlaba, ezinye izinja, abanye abantu ...
- Unokumangaliswa amaxesha ngamaxesha ngesidlo esikhethekileyo. Umzekelo, ukuba uhlala usitya ukutya okomileyo, siya kukunika ukutya okumanzi okusemgangathweni ngolunye usuku.
- Kuya kufuneka umenze azive ethandwa, ke, iya kucinezelwa kwaye icinezelwe Amaxesha amaninzi ngosuku.
Ngezi ngcebiso kunye nomonde, uya kubona ukuba kancinci kancinci ubomvu bakho buyela kwinto ebeyiyo.